What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? TX (Husband) & NY (Wife)
A long term friend of mine has been going through the situation below, and he's very devastated and doesn't know what to do. He's too much of a wreck to even read and post on the forums so I am asking for him:
He's been married 15 years with 3 kids, all close to 10 yrs old. They lived for 8 years in TX, transferred to the UK for 2 years, and then about 6 months ago she decided she didn't want to be with him, so she picked up the 3 kids and left him in the UK and moved back to her home state, NY. He moved back to TX with work about 3 months ago to be closer to the kids. She is trying to get a job in NY, but can't. TX is as close as he can be to the family with work given the bad job market.
I think she has to be a resident for 1 year in NY before she can file for divorce, and that's probably what she's waiting to do. She has asked him to send monthly checks for child support in the $2K range, and he's doing it to keep the peace.
He's hoping somehow she will change her mind and reconcile, but he's worried about what he's giving up legally by not fighting her taking his kids away and being obligating to pay support before any agreement. She probably won't reconcile because it looks likely that she went back to NY to be in a relationship with an old friend.
What are your thoughts? Can she legally take the kids away like that? What are his options?
TIA
A long term friend of mine has been going through the situation below, and he's very devastated and doesn't know what to do. He's too much of a wreck to even read and post on the forums so I am asking for him:
He's been married 15 years with 3 kids, all close to 10 yrs old. They lived for 8 years in TX, transferred to the UK for 2 years, and then about 6 months ago she decided she didn't want to be with him, so she picked up the 3 kids and left him in the UK and moved back to her home state, NY. He moved back to TX with work about 3 months ago to be closer to the kids. She is trying to get a job in NY, but can't. TX is as close as he can be to the family with work given the bad job market.
I think she has to be a resident for 1 year in NY before she can file for divorce, and that's probably what she's waiting to do. She has asked him to send monthly checks for child support in the $2K range, and he's doing it to keep the peace.
He's hoping somehow she will change her mind and reconcile, but he's worried about what he's giving up legally by not fighting her taking his kids away and being obligating to pay support before any agreement. She probably won't reconcile because it looks likely that she went back to NY to be in a relationship with an old friend.
What are your thoughts? Can she legally take the kids away like that? What are his options?
TIA
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