What is the name of your state? Michigan
Alright, I am going to try to state facts here so things won't get to complicated.
1. My girlfriend is pregnant (she just found out last week because she was late & she got tested) & we have been seeing each other for about 6 months. I am 24 and make about 32K a year and she is 22 and has no job.
2. I have excellant health insurance through Blue Cross/Blue Shield. Her family has excellant health insurance through Chrysler.
3. She has no health insurance because:
a. We are not married.
b. She is not a "part time" student in college, so her family heath insurance won't cover it.
4. We both live with our parents, but I was supposed to starting building my first house a week from now.
5. Her parents are highly catholic and will not let her get an abortion or put the kid up for adoption.
6. Her mom wants her to have the kid and sign him/her over to her mom when the baby is born. Her father (whom she is living with right now, along with mother & 3 other kids) wants nothing to do with it at all.
7. A week before she found out that she was late, I told her that I wanted to break up. A week later she told me she was late. I told her to get a home pregnancy test and it was positive.
8. I told her that the only reason that I wanted to break up with her was the fact that she had no job and no car. Which in my eyes is the biggest turn off ever.
Anyways, there is my predicament. I really need some advice, I have to tell my contractor to start the house or hold off this week.
I really think I should try to get back with her and work things out because I don't want to pay child support on a kid that I will never get to see.
Everytime I try to think about this mess I feel like throwing up.
Alright, I am going to try to state facts here so things won't get to complicated.
1. My girlfriend is pregnant (she just found out last week because she was late & she got tested) & we have been seeing each other for about 6 months. I am 24 and make about 32K a year and she is 22 and has no job.
2. I have excellant health insurance through Blue Cross/Blue Shield. Her family has excellant health insurance through Chrysler.
3. She has no health insurance because:
a. We are not married.
b. She is not a "part time" student in college, so her family heath insurance won't cover it.
4. We both live with our parents, but I was supposed to starting building my first house a week from now.
5. Her parents are highly catholic and will not let her get an abortion or put the kid up for adoption.
6. Her mom wants her to have the kid and sign him/her over to her mom when the baby is born. Her father (whom she is living with right now, along with mother & 3 other kids) wants nothing to do with it at all.
7. A week before she found out that she was late, I told her that I wanted to break up. A week later she told me she was late. I told her to get a home pregnancy test and it was positive.
8. I told her that the only reason that I wanted to break up with her was the fact that she had no job and no car. Which in my eyes is the biggest turn off ever.
Anyways, there is my predicament. I really need some advice, I have to tell my contractor to start the house or hold off this week.
I really think I should try to get back with her and work things out because I don't want to pay child support on a kid that I will never get to see.
Everytime I try to think about this mess I feel like throwing up.