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nemo2
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I live in New York with my husband. I'm 36 years old and student, and my natinality is Japanse. (I'm a permanent resident) My husband wants to get a divorce from me because he has seen a woman since this summer. They haven't started a "physical relationship" yet since they are so afraid of being suied. But, they are already talking about their future and he told me that he made "promise" to her. My husband was in confusion and went back and forth b/ me and her in a recent week but finally chose her and I was emotionally hurt so much and in shock. We've been married for 7+ years, no children. He is making about 85000 per year, and I haven't completed my education to become "marketable" yet. Since NY doesn't have no-fault divorce, we have to first have "separation." I still don't want to divorce and want to work on this marriage, but he wants to start his new life with the woman ASAP. If so, I feel like doing something for my own interest.
I'm sorry for this long mail, but my question is, am I entitled to ask spousal support until I remarry or 2 years (hopefully)? why I'm asking this question is that I feel I should be able to bring "justice" to what he and the woman are doing here behind my back. (I know I shouldn't be emotional) So, I feel, I don't want to be pushed around, and I want to bring the best possible result for me. I have his mails that he mentions the woman's exsistence, but, since they are waiting to have sexual relationship, I can't accuse him for commiting adultry. He says he wants to support me, but he doesn't want to do more than "standard" and I don't know what he means by standrd.
Thank you.
I'm sorry for this long mail, but my question is, am I entitled to ask spousal support until I remarry or 2 years (hopefully)? why I'm asking this question is that I feel I should be able to bring "justice" to what he and the woman are doing here behind my back. (I know I shouldn't be emotional) So, I feel, I don't want to be pushed around, and I want to bring the best possible result for me. I have his mails that he mentions the woman's exsistence, but, since they are waiting to have sexual relationship, I can't accuse him for commiting adultry. He says he wants to support me, but he doesn't want to do more than "standard" and I don't know what he means by standrd.
Thank you.
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