I am confused about the short sale suggested as I am the current owner and deed holder of the property. The only part that is not mine is the second mortgage that is secured by the property. I am the primary on the first mortgage, she is the co-signer. The first mortgage is current at this time.
Per the divorce decree the equity that secured the second mortgage belonged to your ex. Therefore the holder of the second mortgage has a valid lien against the property, because your wife was the full title holder at the time that the loan was taken out. If the second mortgage didn't exist, you would owe your ex that equity. Your ex fraudulently quit claimed the house to you...therefore the second mortgage holder could easily get the deed transfer ruled invalid. The bankruptcy trustee can also rule the transfer fraudulent whether the second mortgage existed or not...because the equity in the home belonged to her and should be available as an asset to use to satisfy the creditors.
Example from another perspective: She owned the home free and clear, no liens but several hundred k in other debts. She transferred ownership of the home to a family member or significant other, and then filed bankruptcy. The bankruptcy trustee would invalidate that transfer.
Therefore, you are not going to get to keep the house without coughing up at least a decent chunk of that equity. You are not going to get to keep that equity as well as whatever you got to keep in the divorce, in exchange for that equity.
If the property is sold, its going to be a short sale. (and believe me, the second mortgage holder can force a sale) The house is 24k upside down, and between selling costs and attorney fees to force the sale the second mortgage company could easily spend another 24k...and the house could be on the market for a long time. Therefore, the second mortgage holder might be satisfied to receive 65-80k...because they might end up with even less if the house is on the market for a long time.
Your ex is also going to file for bankruptcy on the first mortgage as well, potentially causing a black mark to end up on your credit report.
If you negotiate with the trustee and the trustee with the second mortgage holder, to "buy" the house in a short sale, with a complete refinance, that satisfies the first mortgage, releases the second mortgage, and completely removes the "stink" of her bankruptcy from your credit.
Yes, you are technically the owner of the home at this time, with no responsibility for the second mortgage, but you cannot expect that ownership to hold up, because it was a fraudulent transfer. Ownership in a home cannot legally transfer unless all liens against the property are satisfied. (except in a divorce action, which is why the transfer to your ex was legal) Ownership was transferred without the second mortgage being satisfied, to someone who was not a party to the second mortgage.
If the quit claim deed has not yet been recorded, its even easier, because then you can treat it like a true short sale. You have valid motivation to do that, to protect your own credit.