My wife recently came back from deployment on Decmeber 20. She is stationed in Norfolk Va. I currently live in a different state. She says she loves me, but that she has been thinking about someone else. She basically means she's met and is seeing another person. I know for a fact that something went down. Not only that, she got a appartment away from base right away with our BAH. Chances are, they are living together. It is obvious she is hiding something from the sailors back at base. She and the sailor she's with know that theyre on the wrongdoing. She also told me that she was invited by this sailor she's been seeing to go with on a vacation with all expenses paid. It's obvious they're going to sleep in the same bed and that nothing is free in this world. Everything has a price. She said that she was going to go with him. I told her not to because we are married and that isn't appropriate. I don't think this behavior is acceptable. I don't know what to do? She will go with him on vacation in about a month. I believe this issue should be look into by someone up in rank. I just don't know who to go to? Who can I talk to about this issue? How can I report her for her and his actions? She is still technically my wife. I don't think they should be allowed to do this. I believe she might wanna start a new life with this sailor she has met. I know that she might wanna file for divorce sometime in the near future. but for the time being, she is still my wife. what can I do about this situation? Who can I contact? What options are available? Private Invetigator? To prove it. Somebody please help. I don't mean to sound like a jerk , but I am really hurt. I have the following symptoms cold sweats, anxiety, panic attacks, high heart rate, and many more health issue do to this situation.