Need child support but father is abusive

[stealth2]

Gee. I thought my reply was quite reasonable. Go figure.

 

[Neal1421]

Gee. I thought my reply was quite reasonable. Go figure.

It wasn't what she wanted to hear.

 

[pashae2]

Hey Niel

You get what you pay for. Hire a lawyer.

Your right. Nothing from this website. So what your saying is that since I
am not paying for a lawyer you and everyone on this website replying to my
messages has the right to treat me like crap. That's pretty immature and
twisted. Again I have the money to hire a lawyer, Neal.
My last lawyer was in L.A. on the avenue of the stars in ste. 400.
Again like I said I stumbled across this website and it looked interesting
but I didn't know how rude everyone is. It's just rediculous.

 

[stealth2]

It wasn't what she wanted to hear.

I guess you're right, Neal. I was giving her a chance to acknowledge that she got a response that didn't trash her, but guess it's more fun to play in the mud.

 

[stealth2]

And tattling is very immature.

As is your behavior. Have you ever heard of "turn the other cheek"? Thought not.

 

[movingon101]

This is so silly. Phasae just let it go so some of ther other OP's can get some advice about our situations. Thanks.

 

[pashae2]

Neal

It wasn't what she wanted to hear.

NO, it's not that it's not what I wanted to hear. What I wanted to hear was
Illinois law. It is the way people talk to you on here, so rudely.
I never even got my question answered, go figure.
And the truth is just what I want to hear, but not people putting others
down. I just gave back what was given to me, rudeness.
They can dish it out but not take it.
It's too bad because this could probably be a good support system
for people who really need it and can never hire an attorney.
Too much name calling and bashing on here.

 

[stealth2]

NO, it's not that it's not what I wanted to hear. What I wanted to hear was
Illinois law. It is the way people talk to you on here, so rudely.
I never even got my question answered, go figure.
And the truth is just what I want to hear, but not people putting others
down. I just gave back what was given to me, rudeness.
They can dish it out but not take it.
It's too bad because this could probably be a good support system
for people who really need it and can never hire an attorney.
Too much name calling and bashing on here.

And I did that... where? Hmmm?

 

[Neal1421]

Did you read this...

NO, it's not that it's not what I wanted to hear. What I wanted to hear was
Illinois law. It is the way people talk to you on here, so rudely.
I never even got my question answered, go figure.
And the truth is just what I want to hear, but not people putting others
down. I just gave back what was given to me, rudeness.
They can dish it out but not take it.
It's too bad because this could probably be a good support system
for people who really need it and can never hire an attorney.
Too much name calling and bashing on here.

If the most current order is from CA and he still lives there - that's pretty much where any further modifications will be heard.

What happened "before" that you didn't bring up in court likely can't be brought up now - it wasn't important enough for you to do so then, so the time for it is past.

So really, your choice is find a way to support your daughter w/o his help, or resign yourself that he WILL get visitation of the child you share.

You were give legal advice.

 

[pashae2]

you again AHA

No wonder the ex joined a gang.
You have spent how many posts now calling people names instead of focussing on the advice and questions you've been asked, so who's the immature one? You are only here to b*tch and continually do so which proves a lot about you.
Good for you that you snared another man to pay your bills, that's being a role model for your kid!
Stop embarrassing yourself and spare us having to pity your kid.

Edit:
This is a legal advice site, not your personal forum to call people names, so directing your ABUSE and violation of terms of this site to the mod, is not what an adult would call "tattling".

Quit writing to me if you don't want to get what you give. And he is my fiancee', we are
to be married. He loves my daughter and we just love him. He we bought this house together with both our money, not just his. I am a good role model to my daughter
she is at the top of her class. I devote my life to my daughter and it shows in her happiness and her schooling. So you know absolutley nothing about my role as a mother, how I pay my bills, you don't even know if I work or not. He doesn't pay my bills honey.
There is no pity to have on my child. She is very beautiful and intelligent.
And I have a very successful business, I pay for my own hosting and advertising
for my business. I advertise online and commercials. So there really is no pity here.
And as for me calling people names, I believe I was the one who was bashed the first
time I posted and I am just giving it back to anyone who wants to give it.
And I don't know what to call it if it's not tattling. hmmm, tattling.
And why would you tattlle for what your doing, I am just giving it back to you.
Have a nice day!

p.s. AS FAR AS MY EX GOES REGARDING JOINING A GANG. IF YOU ARE A MATURE ADULT YOU SHOULD KNOW WE ALL HAVE TO BE RESPONSIBLE FOR OUR OWN DECISIONS.

 

[stealth2]

You got your legal advice - both nicely and not so nicely. Now, say thank you and stop being childish.

 

[AHA]

Quit writing to me if you don't want to get what you give. And he is my fiancee', we are
to be married. He loves my daughter and we just love him. He we bought this house together with both our money, not just his. I am a good role model to my daughter
she is at the top of her class. I devote my life to my daughter and it shows in her happiness and her schooling. So you know absolutley nothing about my role as a mother, how I pay my bills, you don't even know if I work or not. He doesn't pay my bills honey.
There is no pity to have on my child. She is very beautiful and intelligent.
And I have a very successful business, I pay for my own hosting and advertising
for my business. I advertise online and commercials. So there really is no pity here.
And as for me calling people names, I believe I was the one who was bashed the first
time I posted and I am just giving it back to anyone who wants to give it.
And I don't know what to call it if it's not tattling. hmmm, tattling.
And why would you tattlle for what your doing, I am just giving it back to you.
Have a nice day!

p.s. AS FAR AS MY EX GOES REGARDING JOINING A GANG. IF YOU ARE A MATURE ADULT YOU SHOULD KNOW WE ALL HAVE TO BE RESPONSIBLE FOR OUR OWN DECISIONS.

Not on a high horse, huh?
I'm done, you are to immature to even see the advice you got here, everyone is wasting their time.

You chose who you had a kid with, so stop blaming him for being bad.

Have a nice life.