paralee407
Junior Member
What is the name of your state? ny
my son's father and I got pregnant july of 2006. He was sneaking around with his ex-girlfriend and keeping it from me. I eventually found out after recieving many disturbing phonecalls and multiple threats via my nextel walkie talkie from this girl. It was of the upmost importance to my son's father to keep my pregnancy a secret for as long as possible and I just didnt know why. Eventually I recieved a phone call late at night from an anonymous caller and screamed into the phone that I was pregnant and wanted to be left alone. My ex told me he was through with that girl and I didnt know who would be calling so late and not saying anything. Well about 3 weeks after that phone call that girl set up my son's father. Her mother called his cell phone and asked him to do a favor for her if he could please stop by her other daughters house and pick up some stuff she left there and bring it to her since she was ill and couldnt do it herself he took it upon him to do so advising the mother that he didnt want to run into the daughter he used to sneak around with. He says that when he got to the sisters house the front door was ajar and that when he knocked no one heard him so he just let himself in since thats what he used to do all the time anyways. He said when he got inside the house the t.v and radio were on really loud so that was why no one heard his knocking. He couldn't find what the girls mom was talking about so he decided to go deeper into the house to see if he could find the sister ..but that instead of finding the sister, the door to her room was wide open and that girl he was sneaking around with was having sex with her boyfriend, who knew that my EX- boyfriend and his girlfriend used to sneak around. He said that the girls boyfriend upon seeing him went ballistic and pulled out a knife and they started fighting ...my son's dad some how got a holdof the knife (which has mysteriously disappeared ) and stabbed the guy 7x because he said that everytime he would go to put the knife down the guy was on him again and he couldnt get away without the guy trying to attack him.
This happend last nov. and my sons dad who was on probation for something completely else (non-Violent) has not been let out on bail (they keep setting it for like 100,000) his court dates just keep getting post poned for later dates and he is just crying and crying over and over that he was really just trying to defend himself...and that he is innocent.
His lawyer isn't saying much of anything and I would really like to know what to expect and what kind of charges he's likely to face plus what is the jail time if they find him guilty....
Also any advice i should give.... in the 10 years I have known him..he has never done anything like this before and its a real shock to my system.
my son's father and I got pregnant july of 2006. He was sneaking around with his ex-girlfriend and keeping it from me. I eventually found out after recieving many disturbing phonecalls and multiple threats via my nextel walkie talkie from this girl. It was of the upmost importance to my son's father to keep my pregnancy a secret for as long as possible and I just didnt know why. Eventually I recieved a phone call late at night from an anonymous caller and screamed into the phone that I was pregnant and wanted to be left alone. My ex told me he was through with that girl and I didnt know who would be calling so late and not saying anything. Well about 3 weeks after that phone call that girl set up my son's father. Her mother called his cell phone and asked him to do a favor for her if he could please stop by her other daughters house and pick up some stuff she left there and bring it to her since she was ill and couldnt do it herself he took it upon him to do so advising the mother that he didnt want to run into the daughter he used to sneak around with. He says that when he got to the sisters house the front door was ajar and that when he knocked no one heard him so he just let himself in since thats what he used to do all the time anyways. He said when he got inside the house the t.v and radio were on really loud so that was why no one heard his knocking. He couldn't find what the girls mom was talking about so he decided to go deeper into the house to see if he could find the sister ..but that instead of finding the sister, the door to her room was wide open and that girl he was sneaking around with was having sex with her boyfriend, who knew that my EX- boyfriend and his girlfriend used to sneak around. He said that the girls boyfriend upon seeing him went ballistic and pulled out a knife and they started fighting ...my son's dad some how got a holdof the knife (which has mysteriously disappeared ) and stabbed the guy 7x because he said that everytime he would go to put the knife down the guy was on him again and he couldnt get away without the guy trying to attack him.
This happend last nov. and my sons dad who was on probation for something completely else (non-Violent) has not been let out on bail (they keep setting it for like 100,000) his court dates just keep getting post poned for later dates and he is just crying and crying over and over that he was really just trying to defend himself...and that he is innocent.
His lawyer isn't saying much of anything and I would really like to know what to expect and what kind of charges he's likely to face plus what is the jail time if they find him guilty....
Also any advice i should give.... in the 10 years I have known him..he has never done anything like this before and its a real shock to my system.
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