What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? Virginia
Hi, Two years ago my husband and I were having problems, basically because my father left me an inheritance and he was coming up with lots of ways to spend it, new Harley, new truck, etc. We had two houses, one in which we live in and have a mortgage, second house is a rental in which I paid off. My husband said at that time he wanted a divorce and wanted me to leave. I offered him $30,000. for him to sign over both properties to me and he agreed. We went to an attorney and had the deeds put in my name only. He also demanded I go to an attorney and have separation papers drawn up, which I did, then he refused to sign them. He did leave and was gone for a few months. He started calling me telling me what a mistake he had made and wanted it to work out. We were getting along pretty good until I got a job last Oct. He didn't want me to work and made it clear every evening I came in. He would keep me awake all night every night and kept telling me that he just couldn't handle me working. So stupid me, l quit because I stayed so worked up having to listen to him when I came in. Now our relationship is worse than ever, he has always been totally against me working, doesn't want me to have friends, wants me to wait on him hand and foot, but he can do anything he wants, has tons of buddies, etc. Its impossible to try and talk to him about anything, his response is, Shut up or Ill shut you up. I am just really tired of living like this and would like to know if I can force him to leave because the houses are solely in my name? Since, Im not working I have no income coming in, the rental house I have is not rentable and because I own properties would I be able to get any financial assistance. PS the two vechiles we have are in just his name and he wont let me drive them. Any advice at all would be greatly appreciated, at this point I dont know in which direction to turn. Whats the cheapest way to get a separation and Divorce, we have two sons that are over 21. Thanks in advance
Hi, Two years ago my husband and I were having problems, basically because my father left me an inheritance and he was coming up with lots of ways to spend it, new Harley, new truck, etc. We had two houses, one in which we live in and have a mortgage, second house is a rental in which I paid off. My husband said at that time he wanted a divorce and wanted me to leave. I offered him $30,000. for him to sign over both properties to me and he agreed. We went to an attorney and had the deeds put in my name only. He also demanded I go to an attorney and have separation papers drawn up, which I did, then he refused to sign them. He did leave and was gone for a few months. He started calling me telling me what a mistake he had made and wanted it to work out. We were getting along pretty good until I got a job last Oct. He didn't want me to work and made it clear every evening I came in. He would keep me awake all night every night and kept telling me that he just couldn't handle me working. So stupid me, l quit because I stayed so worked up having to listen to him when I came in. Now our relationship is worse than ever, he has always been totally against me working, doesn't want me to have friends, wants me to wait on him hand and foot, but he can do anything he wants, has tons of buddies, etc. Its impossible to try and talk to him about anything, his response is, Shut up or Ill shut you up. I am just really tired of living like this and would like to know if I can force him to leave because the houses are solely in my name? Since, Im not working I have no income coming in, the rental house I have is not rentable and because I own properties would I be able to get any financial assistance. PS the two vechiles we have are in just his name and he wont let me drive them. Any advice at all would be greatly appreciated, at this point I dont know in which direction to turn. Whats the cheapest way to get a separation and Divorce, we have two sons that are over 21. Thanks in advance