What is the name of your state? Indiana. When my wife filed for divorce, I was ordered to pay maintenance during the separation, while a settlement agreement was made. This took over two years, during which time I suffered mental breakdowns (lost house, kids, cars) and I lost my business. Creditors kept coming because my wife kept spending on our credit cards. Finally, the house (which she wanted as part of the settlement) went into foreclosure. By that time I was ready to sign anything, just to end the torture (sound familiar?). I finally filed bankruptcy. Now I am dead broke, living hand to mouth.
To conclude, I signed something which, in retrospect, I shoud not have, and I am now court ordered to pay her $10,500 for her "lost equity". Done deal, right?
But, what are my chances of getting relief on the areas of child support which I really cannot afford anymore. These include: $1000/yr for clothing allowance for kids; 50% of deductibles and 80% of all uninsured medical (by the way, does this to mean 80% of co-pay amount or of med. bills not covered by ins.??); and 50% of all extracurricular activities, with no say-so on what?
To conclude, I signed something which, in retrospect, I shoud not have, and I am now court ordered to pay her $10,500 for her "lost equity". Done deal, right?
But, what are my chances of getting relief on the areas of child support which I really cannot afford anymore. These include: $1000/yr for clothing allowance for kids; 50% of deductibles and 80% of all uninsured medical (by the way, does this to mean 80% of co-pay amount or of med. bills not covered by ins.??); and 50% of all extracurricular activities, with no say-so on what?