Theresalee
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What is the name of your state?CA
I am going to ask this for a friend and my reason is I ws wondering if it would work for me as well. She has been married for 8 years (legal) mine isn't yet b/c I am filing a nunc pro tunc for n erroe on almost 21 year marriage. My thread was pretty full but this is more for both of us. Anyway can a prenup be written after the marriage? Her husband saw a show that said you can fill out a document and get it noterized stating one person gets almost everything as furnitings etc.. alimony etc If it's proven that they were cheating and on that document they define cheating. Also they have to have proof as in a video, pictures, STD etc.. not just word of mouth. What she wants written is the cheater can only leave with the clothes on his/her back.. Also alimony in a certain amount to be paid etc... Mine wouldn't be like that but she also said if a divorce judge wouldn't grant it she could take them to small claims court? I guess for the monitary stuff ? My thought is alimony can only be granted in family court. I don't want her or myself to think we are all set and find out were screwed in the end!!! Kinda like I am right now (maybe), If this is to vague or complicated just pass it up, I totally understand.. Thanks
I am going to ask this for a friend and my reason is I ws wondering if it would work for me as well. She has been married for 8 years (legal) mine isn't yet b/c I am filing a nunc pro tunc for n erroe on almost 21 year marriage. My thread was pretty full but this is more for both of us. Anyway can a prenup be written after the marriage? Her husband saw a show that said you can fill out a document and get it noterized stating one person gets almost everything as furnitings etc.. alimony etc If it's proven that they were cheating and on that document they define cheating. Also they have to have proof as in a video, pictures, STD etc.. not just word of mouth. What she wants written is the cheater can only leave with the clothes on his/her back.. Also alimony in a certain amount to be paid etc... Mine wouldn't be like that but she also said if a divorce judge wouldn't grant it she could take them to small claims court? I guess for the monitary stuff ? My thought is alimony can only be granted in family court. I don't want her or myself to think we are all set and find out were screwed in the end!!! Kinda like I am right now (maybe), If this is to vague or complicated just pass it up, I totally understand.. Thanks