What is the name of your state? PA I hope I have this posted in correct forum. I found out about 6 wks. ago that my ex and his wife have been receiving some of my mail (don't know why, put in a change of addy). Anyway, they opened it, read it, made copies of it and passed it out. I rec'd copies from a 3rd party (family member, his). I reported it to postal inspectors, they told me to file harrasement charges against them in my ex's town. Cheif of police in ex's town say it's a federal matter and won't and can't touch it. He suggested that it is a civil matter and I should go to local magistrate and file a civil suit, but I have no damages that I can prove other than aggravation. This mail was clearly addressed to me and marked "personal and confidential" It had my SS# on it. It has the new wife's handwriting on it in blue ink. This is not the first time they have done this, only the first time I have reported it. It seems that the state postal inspectors want to push it to local and vice versa. I don't know who else they have passed these copies out to. I have already contacted the credit bureaus. I just don't know what to do next. I haven't spoke w/my ex in a very long time. They just won't leave things alone, and I am sick of their games. They have stepped over the line on this one. Thanks for any suggestions.