What is the name of your state?NY
I am the CP and NCP has no legal visitation. I live in NY, dad lives in MA. I originally agreed (verbally) to EOW visitation and offered to drive our son 1 1/2hrs (each way) to the ferry for the drop off. Since Oct, dad hasn't showed up for PU, and refused to return him to my house twice (forcing me to drive back to the ferry to pick our son up). I also offered him this school vacation from today till Sunday. I informed him that from now on he is to PU our son at my home and I will PU at the ferry, that way I never have to drive to the ferry 2x in a weekend, and if he doesn't show I am not unconvinced. I feel like I have been extremely generous, but today he blew up at me stating I should drive our son to the ferry today because it's xmas time. He also stated that if I ever screw up I will never see our son again! What ever that means- yes, he is an idiot. The distance is 5hrs each way for a visit and I am contemplating making visits once every three weeks....is this reasonable for this type of distance. Of course he can file for visits, I almost wish he would so when he violates an order I can file contempt.
I am looking for opinions...and a baseball bat
I am the CP and NCP has no legal visitation. I live in NY, dad lives in MA. I originally agreed (verbally) to EOW visitation and offered to drive our son 1 1/2hrs (each way) to the ferry for the drop off. Since Oct, dad hasn't showed up for PU, and refused to return him to my house twice (forcing me to drive back to the ferry to pick our son up). I also offered him this school vacation from today till Sunday. I informed him that from now on he is to PU our son at my home and I will PU at the ferry, that way I never have to drive to the ferry 2x in a weekend, and if he doesn't show I am not unconvinced. I feel like I have been extremely generous, but today he blew up at me stating I should drive our son to the ferry today because it's xmas time. He also stated that if I ever screw up I will never see our son again! What ever that means- yes, he is an idiot. The distance is 5hrs each way for a visit and I am contemplating making visits once every three weeks....is this reasonable for this type of distance. Of course he can file for visits, I almost wish he would so when he violates an order I can file contempt.
I am looking for opinions...and a baseball bat