StickyFingers
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What is the name of your state? FL
I never ever ( And I would hope that "Daddy" wouldn't have) wanted to keep our children away from one parent or another...But I lived with his violent tendencies( as far as beating me bloody and unrecognizable in the face ...to choking me till I passed out..any many more that I do not want to go into) for several years. Our oldest has seen alot...But still holds his dad on a pedestal....He told me that he called his Dad the other day and left a message..( see the exerpt below)...I can only assume that I could be held responsible...What are the penalties if the "plantiff" is found to violate the order? Does the order become null and void?
I cannot be mad at our oldest. I watch both of our children cry their Daddy...It kills me. BUt I WILL NOT let our children be raised to believe that hitting a woman is right.! I WILL NOT allow them to be witness to what their father does to me! My oldest one night, was witness to his Daddy, very busy, putting 3 two and half inch goose eggs on the back of my head. He jumped on his Daddy's back and screamed, "Don't hurt my mommy".."Daddy" jumped up straight and put our oldest son into a wall ( flung off Daddy's back).
I have a few questions....
First...My Order of protection ends on 4-1-04...I was awarded custody of our two small children in the order. My husband IS and ALWAYS will be a wife beater. What happens after 4-1-04?....Does he now have equal rights?.....My understanding says YES!...I just want to know if I am right.( I know what can happen after that date. If what I think is true).
Second...He has contacted me and has tried to contact our kids via his mom and has left messages for our children on my cell. I know this is agaist the order, cause this is the exerpt from my order:
You are ordered not to contact the children listed above or any children in the plaintiff's custody listed below. either in person, by telephone, in writing or otherwise, either directly or through someone else, and to stay at least (no entry)..yards away from them unless you recieve written permission from the Court to do so."( says same thing reguarding plaintiff)
Thanks y'all! Any help will be appreciated!
I never ever ( And I would hope that "Daddy" wouldn't have) wanted to keep our children away from one parent or another...But I lived with his violent tendencies( as far as beating me bloody and unrecognizable in the face ...to choking me till I passed out..any many more that I do not want to go into) for several years. Our oldest has seen alot...But still holds his dad on a pedestal....He told me that he called his Dad the other day and left a message..( see the exerpt below)...I can only assume that I could be held responsible...What are the penalties if the "plantiff" is found to violate the order? Does the order become null and void?
I cannot be mad at our oldest. I watch both of our children cry their Daddy...It kills me. BUt I WILL NOT let our children be raised to believe that hitting a woman is right.! I WILL NOT allow them to be witness to what their father does to me! My oldest one night, was witness to his Daddy, very busy, putting 3 two and half inch goose eggs on the back of my head. He jumped on his Daddy's back and screamed, "Don't hurt my mommy".."Daddy" jumped up straight and put our oldest son into a wall ( flung off Daddy's back).
I have a few questions....
First...My Order of protection ends on 4-1-04...I was awarded custody of our two small children in the order. My husband IS and ALWAYS will be a wife beater. What happens after 4-1-04?....Does he now have equal rights?.....My understanding says YES!...I just want to know if I am right.( I know what can happen after that date. If what I think is true).
Second...He has contacted me and has tried to contact our kids via his mom and has left messages for our children on my cell. I know this is agaist the order, cause this is the exerpt from my order:
You are ordered not to contact the children listed above or any children in the plaintiff's custody listed below. either in person, by telephone, in writing or otherwise, either directly or through someone else, and to stay at least (no entry)..yards away from them unless you recieve written permission from the Court to do so."( says same thing reguarding plaintiff)
Thanks y'all! Any help will be appreciated!