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JessicaArlyn
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Woo-Hoo!! I finally get up the nerve to stop being a lurker and contribute more.....
Trust me, Decieved, all of us have made our way to this site because of similar situations in our lives. The people who come back understand their obligations, moral and financial, and look here for support. I have looked ALL over, and what IAAL said is all true. It sounds from your posts that the child is 'siding' with the mom, but he is probably just confused and being manipulated. File that order of visitation and spend as much time with him as you can, maybe your love will turn his head around. Sure, it's 'unfair' but what if this biodad is some loony?? YOU raised this child for many years, are you willing to invite a possible worse person into YOUR child's life?? Buck up, and we will all support you as you do the right thing.
Have a good day, Jessica/CA
Trust me, Decieved, all of us have made our way to this site because of similar situations in our lives. The people who come back understand their obligations, moral and financial, and look here for support. I have looked ALL over, and what IAAL said is all true. It sounds from your posts that the child is 'siding' with the mom, but he is probably just confused and being manipulated. File that order of visitation and spend as much time with him as you can, maybe your love will turn his head around. Sure, it's 'unfair' but what if this biodad is some loony?? YOU raised this child for many years, are you willing to invite a possible worse person into YOUR child's life?? Buck up, and we will all support you as you do the right thing.
Have a good day, Jessica/CA