WANNACRY said:actually your local Department of Health, or Family services, whatever it is there, night be able to answer that for you, they might actually sponser the classes
CJane said:Try your local extension office, health department, etc. My sister has worked as a parenting instructor in several states, and has almost always worked extremely closely with the county extension office, if not for them directly.
xKellyx said:what is the county extension office, i've never heard of such a thing
It's not usually the first place people think of looking for parenting help, but I'd be surprised if they didn't have some info that would be helpful.Cooperative Extension System Offices
This section of our Web site will help you find your nearest Cooperative Extension office. The Cooperative Extension System is a nationwide, non-credit educational network. Each U.S. state and territory has a state office at its land-grant university and a network of local or regional offices. These offices are staffed by one or more experts who provide useful, practical, and research-based information to agricultural producers, small business owners, youth, consumers, and others in rural areas and communities of all sizes.
CSREES is the federal partner in the Cooperative Extension System. It provides federal funding to the system and, through program leadership, helps the system identify and address current issues and problems.
rmet4nzkx said:I'm glad to see you've finally taken our advice. You might also check with your local community college re early childhood educaiton classes.
Your child is well within the normal range of age appropriate behavior, she doesn't need a psychologist, you do and it is your responsibility to pay for it, you might wait until after you complete the parenting classes before you begin therapy.xKellyx said:We are still going to the psychologist. The parenting classes are for me and my husband, who has had no previous experience with kids. I am also going to invite My ex and his wife, since they also have no previous experience with kids, they won't go but I have at least tried to help yet again.
Some courts require theses classes when custody is filed for or divorce. All courts should require the classes. - IMO!xKellyx said:We are still going to the psychologist. The parenting classes are for me and my husband, who has had no previous experience with kids. I am also going to invite My ex and his wife, since they also have no previous experience with kids, they won't go but I have at least tried to help yet again.
rmet4nzkx said:Your child is well within the normal range of age appropriate behavior, she doesn't need a psychologist, you do and it is your responsibility to pay for it, you might wait until after you complete the parenting classes before you begin therapy.
Use your head, why on Earth would you want to admit to your ex, by your conduct that you are inaqequate as a parent by inviting them to a parenting class or trying to bill them for your therapy? Their education in parenting or your assessment of their ability to parent is of no consequence, making it an issue will make you look like a control freak or worse. Remember, discretion is the better part of Valor.
bononos said:Some courts require theses classes when custody is filed for or divorce. All courts should require the classes. - IMO!