UPDATE - Paternity/CS/Name change
What is the name of your state?What is the name of your state? AL
I have been lurking about the forums for some time now, reading, but haven’t found anything applicable.
I have 5 month old infant child with 38 yoa former bf - he moved out, at my request, when I was 2 months pregnant. He has had no contact with the child, and refuses all offers of visitation which both I and his brother have tried to arrange (his brother & brother's family have had continued contact with baby). Dad also refuses to become employed, living with relatives and staying out all night gambling and playing pool, and has paid no support. He last worked in a legitimate job approx 5 years ago. Paternity/child support proceedings are pending. Relief requested includes guideline cs based upon income imputed to him at his last earned wage, which is $8.00 per hour higher than minimum wage, due to his voluntary unemployment. Other requested relief includes reimbursement of ½ of uninsured maternity and birth expenses, ½ of future uninsured doctor, dental and ortho, and life insurance with me as owner and responsible for payment of premium, and child as beneficiary (as there would likely be no ss benefits if father dies before child reaches majority).
Issues in dispute are:
Amount of wages to be imputed to father
Insurance policy on father’s life
Name of child--Child’s name is currently “dad’sname-mom’sname”. My last name is my former married name, and is the same as my 2 children from prior marriage. It is my position that the hyphenated name is in the best interest of my child, as father has no contact and child would be the “odd man out” if name is changed to just dad’s last name. AL statute is somewhat contradictory - 1981 statute provides that father may seek name change after legitimation, and if I object the probate court will hear the issue and make a determination. A 1983 AG opinion interpreting the statute, however, states that if the CP objects, the name cannot be changed.
Would someone please provide me with some info regarding how other states have handled the issues regarding name change and life insurance, in the absence of agreement. Cites would be very helpful.
Amazingly, there is no trailer anywhere in this story; perhaps dad will move in with someone who lives in a trailer to provide the perfect hick ending.
What is the name of your state?What is the name of your state? AL
I have been lurking about the forums for some time now, reading, but haven’t found anything applicable.
I have 5 month old infant child with 38 yoa former bf - he moved out, at my request, when I was 2 months pregnant. He has had no contact with the child, and refuses all offers of visitation which both I and his brother have tried to arrange (his brother & brother's family have had continued contact with baby). Dad also refuses to become employed, living with relatives and staying out all night gambling and playing pool, and has paid no support. He last worked in a legitimate job approx 5 years ago. Paternity/child support proceedings are pending. Relief requested includes guideline cs based upon income imputed to him at his last earned wage, which is $8.00 per hour higher than minimum wage, due to his voluntary unemployment. Other requested relief includes reimbursement of ½ of uninsured maternity and birth expenses, ½ of future uninsured doctor, dental and ortho, and life insurance with me as owner and responsible for payment of premium, and child as beneficiary (as there would likely be no ss benefits if father dies before child reaches majority).
Issues in dispute are:
Amount of wages to be imputed to father
Insurance policy on father’s life
Name of child--Child’s name is currently “dad’sname-mom’sname”. My last name is my former married name, and is the same as my 2 children from prior marriage. It is my position that the hyphenated name is in the best interest of my child, as father has no contact and child would be the “odd man out” if name is changed to just dad’s last name. AL statute is somewhat contradictory - 1981 statute provides that father may seek name change after legitimation, and if I object the probate court will hear the issue and make a determination. A 1983 AG opinion interpreting the statute, however, states that if the CP objects, the name cannot be changed.
Would someone please provide me with some info regarding how other states have handled the issues regarding name change and life insurance, in the absence of agreement. Cites would be very helpful.
Amazingly, there is no trailer anywhere in this story; perhaps dad will move in with someone who lives in a trailer to provide the perfect hick ending.
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