thehigherroad
Junior Member
What is the name of your state? California
I am asking for some personal advice along with legal advice on how any of you have handled a situation like this:
My ex and I have joint legal / physical custody and about a 60/40 time split of our 3 kids. He was ordered to pay $245 in monthly support and told me that because of this he does not have to pay for anything else. I am talking about school sports (that he wants them to do) field trips and other school expenses such as yearbooks, pe clothes and things like that. Anyone else have to deal with this? He said his lawyer told him the support covers all of these things and he shouldn't have to pay anything else. Is that true? I know I could just tell the kids they can't do these things or just suck it up and pay for it all by myself. But he is telling them to go on the trips and sign up for the sports but won't pay for half. New court order doesn't say anything about this and old order says half of uncovered medical expenses but doesn't reference anything about school expenses. What is standard? Does the court really expect the support to cover these things?
Thanks in advance.
I am asking for some personal advice along with legal advice on how any of you have handled a situation like this:
My ex and I have joint legal / physical custody and about a 60/40 time split of our 3 kids. He was ordered to pay $245 in monthly support and told me that because of this he does not have to pay for anything else. I am talking about school sports (that he wants them to do) field trips and other school expenses such as yearbooks, pe clothes and things like that. Anyone else have to deal with this? He said his lawyer told him the support covers all of these things and he shouldn't have to pay anything else. Is that true? I know I could just tell the kids they can't do these things or just suck it up and pay for it all by myself. But he is telling them to go on the trips and sign up for the sports but won't pay for half. New court order doesn't say anything about this and old order says half of uncovered medical expenses but doesn't reference anything about school expenses. What is standard? Does the court really expect the support to cover these things?
Thanks in advance.