What is the name of your state? i live in west central florida. i just went through a bad divorce and have just realized i got nothing out of it but my three kids. he cleaned out my acct which he never used just because he could then filed for divorce. with no money and little time i got what was said to be the best lawyer in town. now that i read my divorce it says we have joint cust although i raise them, he lied about income so i get 500 a mo for three kids, he lied about not having a car so i have to drive to him to drop off the kids even though i had a restraining order, i have to pay all the ins and still half the medical and dental bills, i have to pay for any travel expences for him and the kids if i move out of state and he left me with a house thats falling apart even though he was to get it and give me money to move. he is now remarried this fast and my kids are in this tornado with me. they dont understand why we have no money and their dad keeps saying he will take them from me for his wife to raise even though hes said several times he doesnt want them... what can i do to atleast make this fair. i dont want to get even, i just want it to get fair. is this possible? please help