Ohiogal
Queen Bee
Here are the facts as the court sees them:I only want what is best for my granddaughter. To be honest, I was not a fan of the father when they were together - however, I believe that everyone has the ability to change, everyone deserves a second chance, and no matter how I feel about him (or how my daughter feels about him) he IS my granddaughter's father and he has the right to be a part of her life if he chooses to do so, and my granddaughter has the right to know her father.
I have tried to reason with my daughter on this issue - but she won't hear anything I have to say. Not about this matter, or the other matter I will be posting about soon. She believes that she is right, and that things will be her way or no way.
1) Your daughter CHOSE him as father;
2) HE is a fit father because your daughter gave birth;
3) She determined he was fit because she didn't have an abortion;
4) The court is not going to care about HER excuses;
5) He sues for custody and visitation and he will stand EQUAL before the court with her (that is statute in Ohio).
Oh and the court may also see this: YOUR DAUGHTER NEEDS TO GROW UP. She chose to spread her legs and allow dad to impregnate her. SHE needs to realize that SHE -- by her action of having sex -- gave the seal of approval to dad. Your daughter is an idiot and a court will tell her that with huge repercussions if she doesn't listen to you prior. She really needs to grow up and do the right thing.