What is the name of your state? California
Hello, I have a 21 month old son. I have been my sons only caretaker since birth and his father has only been involved on a very limited basis and our son has never lived with him. His father is in Iraq as a civilian contractor and has been for about a year and will be return soon. I heard from the grape vine that he plans to take me to court for custody when he gets back. I want him to spend time with our son but feel that 50/50 physical custody is not a good idea. I think that once our son is comfortable with his father that every other weekend it apporpriate. Our son has no idea who he is and he lives 40 miles away. Plus I have a job that allows me to work from home so I am only away from our son 6 hours a week. Is the court likely to give him 50/50 phyiscal custody? That would mean my son would be put into daycare when he was staying with his father when he could be home with me! Do California courts give alot of consideration to a childs primary caretaker and status quo? Just a side note: We have never gone to court and he does pay child support.
Hello, I have a 21 month old son. I have been my sons only caretaker since birth and his father has only been involved on a very limited basis and our son has never lived with him. His father is in Iraq as a civilian contractor and has been for about a year and will be return soon. I heard from the grape vine that he plans to take me to court for custody when he gets back. I want him to spend time with our son but feel that 50/50 physical custody is not a good idea. I think that once our son is comfortable with his father that every other weekend it apporpriate. Our son has no idea who he is and he lives 40 miles away. Plus I have a job that allows me to work from home so I am only away from our son 6 hours a week. Is the court likely to give him 50/50 phyiscal custody? That would mean my son would be put into daycare when he was staying with his father when he could be home with me! Do California courts give alot of consideration to a childs primary caretaker and status quo? Just a side note: We have never gone to court and he does pay child support.