What is the name of your state? Utah
I was married a year Nov. 10, 2006. One month before I retired from the army, and was separated by Oct 07. My wife told me to take care of the divorce paperwork online. If I make her the petitioner (like she wants) there is additional paperwork asking about my military service. That makes me nervous. I know it has something with the Servicemans Civil Relief Act. Not sure what that is. She is not entitled to any of my retirement or other benefits. She also refuses to sign the paperwork until it says exactly what she wants it to, which as I understand, I have to file the paperwork with the court before she signs it anyway. If she disputes anything, and refuses to sign, she wold have to hire an attorney to get it changed. I put in the paperwork that there were irreconcilable differences and that marriage counseling and a separation were unsuccessful at working through deep-seated issues brought into the marriage by both parties.
Her response was that she didn't bring any deep-seated issues into the relationship, just me, and wants the paperwork to state that. Everybody with a pulse brings unresolved issues into a relationship.
Back to the military issue. Why do "they" need to know anything about my military service? Does it matter who is the plantiff? If She continues to dispute the generic issues (which I know she will) what are possible ramifications?What is the name of your state?
I was married a year Nov. 10, 2006. One month before I retired from the army, and was separated by Oct 07. My wife told me to take care of the divorce paperwork online. If I make her the petitioner (like she wants) there is additional paperwork asking about my military service. That makes me nervous. I know it has something with the Servicemans Civil Relief Act. Not sure what that is. She is not entitled to any of my retirement or other benefits. She also refuses to sign the paperwork until it says exactly what she wants it to, which as I understand, I have to file the paperwork with the court before she signs it anyway. If she disputes anything, and refuses to sign, she wold have to hire an attorney to get it changed. I put in the paperwork that there were irreconcilable differences and that marriage counseling and a separation were unsuccessful at working through deep-seated issues brought into the marriage by both parties.
Her response was that she didn't bring any deep-seated issues into the relationship, just me, and wants the paperwork to state that. Everybody with a pulse brings unresolved issues into a relationship.
Back to the military issue. Why do "they" need to know anything about my military service? Does it matter who is the plantiff? If She continues to dispute the generic issues (which I know she will) what are possible ramifications?What is the name of your state?