independentshed
Junior Member
I live in South Carolina and wanted to know how I can have a restraining order modified or removed against my fiance by the Department of Social Services. They placed a "no contact" order against him for a non-sexual child abuse charge against my daughter. He has never layed a hand on me, any of my kids, his own son or previous wife before. What happened was truely an accident. He doesn't drink or do drugs, he had a lapse in judgement and my daughter got hurt!
It has been a tough few months but we are following the order to the letter. But the order also has made it difficult to maintain my lifestyle. I haven't been able to go to church, my daughter has lost th connection with his mother , her grandmother, aunts, and cousins because he lives in the house with them now .We are no longer able to attend sunday dinners or other family events because of the order. Are these valid reasons to have an order changed or are DSS orders final? What if we leave the state?
It has been a tough few months but we are following the order to the letter. But the order also has made it difficult to maintain my lifestyle. I haven't been able to go to church, my daughter has lost th connection with his mother , her grandmother, aunts, and cousins because he lives in the house with them now .We are no longer able to attend sunday dinners or other family events because of the order. Are these valid reasons to have an order changed or are DSS orders final? What if we leave the state?