Silverplum
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I'm glad you wrote something here to clarify, fairisfair.fairisfair said:not hardly, he can petition for visitation any time he wants, and he can be awarded visitation at given times when the court determines it.
I'm glad you wrote something here to clarify, fairisfair.fairisfair said:not hardly, he can petition for visitation any time he wants, and he can be awarded visitation at given times when the court determines it.
I distinctly read that you didn't want any cs, what's up with this new "plan"?cooloonka said:and will the wife's income be included in determining what daddy pays for child support?
He gets a lawyer, files for custody and hopes for the best.cooloonka said:so what should my nephew's father do in order to obtain some form of legal custody? he is a wonderful father and i am afraid he has been misinformed due to the answers i have recieved today.
I see, it's all about the $$$$$.cooloonka said:its not that i didn't want cs. its that i was wondering 'what if' i didn't try to obtain cs.
If you don't mind, I'd like to redirect your thinking a bit:cooloonka said:who wouldn't want cs if all the other crap is inevitable? however i didn't know the inevitable until moments ago. the wonderment of law forums.
Take your own advice and focus on the best interests of the kid (two parents, family etc), not how much cash you can get from the different "scenarios".cooloonka said:think harder.
I urge you to do the same. And by "harder", what I mean is "about adoption". Please, oh please. You need to think about what is best for your child and obviously that is not being raised by you, playing tug of war with the kiddo to get back @ daddy, his money, his wife, and her money.cooloonka said:its not all about the $$$$$. think harder.
i would've done it had i known you were confused...Silverplum said:I'm glad you wrote something here to clarify, fairisfair.
No need to be snippy. If you have a problem with me, personally, you may take it to PM.lizbeth17 said:i would've done it had i known you were confused...