What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? California.
My ex and I were not married, but had a child together (age 2 now.) Abusive and mentally unstable ex left us 9 months ago. We finally got a signed child support agreement, but ex is now trying to fight it AGAIN. The courts are allowing him and his attorney to have another go at me.
Current agreement is that he is supposed to pay $XXX for child support, and half of daycare.
I don't think he can continue to dispute CS. He got a good job this year, while I'm self-employed (and always have been.) He makes a lot more than me now, especially as I'm coming out of the recession broke ass and trying to rebrand/revive my business. I'm depleting my savings while trying to get back on my feet. He's furious at the outcome, but I've provided 3 years worth of financials consisting of 3 sets of special interrogatories (2" thick!") IE's, tax returns, everything. Plus I settled for less than guideline just to avoid a trial, like him and his attorney kept threatening. So CS is being garnished.
He is refusing to pay half of daycare. His newest tactic is to claim that I've abandoned our child by putting him in daycare, and that I'm not working, therefore he doesn't want to pay half of daycare.
The judge is allowing him to demand proof that I work. So much of my work right now is unpaid! I've been building a new website, writing marketing materials, etc. I don't put tasks on my calendar, only actual appointments with people. Can you please give me some ideas for how I can submit proof?
So frustrating, as I've paid for 7 months of daycare without him reimbursing me. Almost half the time our baby wasn't even able to attend because he was sick, so I paid for daycare AND missed work. Now ex is trying to get out of the court order, which is standard in our state. All this document prep is REALLY keeping me from working on my business. Sad, sad irony. Please help me. I want to provide a really good packet of papers that the judge will find acceptable (the judge didn't specifically say what I need to provide.)
My ex and I were not married, but had a child together (age 2 now.) Abusive and mentally unstable ex left us 9 months ago. We finally got a signed child support agreement, but ex is now trying to fight it AGAIN. The courts are allowing him and his attorney to have another go at me.
Current agreement is that he is supposed to pay $XXX for child support, and half of daycare.
I don't think he can continue to dispute CS. He got a good job this year, while I'm self-employed (and always have been.) He makes a lot more than me now, especially as I'm coming out of the recession broke ass and trying to rebrand/revive my business. I'm depleting my savings while trying to get back on my feet. He's furious at the outcome, but I've provided 3 years worth of financials consisting of 3 sets of special interrogatories (2" thick!") IE's, tax returns, everything. Plus I settled for less than guideline just to avoid a trial, like him and his attorney kept threatening. So CS is being garnished.
He is refusing to pay half of daycare. His newest tactic is to claim that I've abandoned our child by putting him in daycare, and that I'm not working, therefore he doesn't want to pay half of daycare.
The judge is allowing him to demand proof that I work. So much of my work right now is unpaid! I've been building a new website, writing marketing materials, etc. I don't put tasks on my calendar, only actual appointments with people. Can you please give me some ideas for how I can submit proof?
So frustrating, as I've paid for 7 months of daycare without him reimbursing me. Almost half the time our baby wasn't even able to attend because he was sick, so I paid for daycare AND missed work. Now ex is trying to get out of the court order, which is standard in our state. All this document prep is REALLY keeping me from working on my business. Sad, sad irony. Please help me. I want to provide a really good packet of papers that the judge will find acceptable (the judge didn't specifically say what I need to provide.)