milspecgirl
Senior Member
What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? KY
My ex and I are going to mediation next week to try to work out a schedule that will work for our girls (15 and 12). He currently has primary with me having ample visitation. This was agreed upon when I had to move for work approx 5 years ago. I have been back in town now for 1.5 years and have been working on getting back the 50/50 that we had before I was transferred.
My question is this: do judges allow separation of children? Our 15 yo is going thru a rough time and is in counseling and under a psychiatrists care. However, she causes a lot of stress for the 12 yo and it is manifesting is physical ailments. My thought is to separate them during the week and have them together on weekends. I don't want them separated for good or totally, but I think a break between them may be necessary while the older one goes thru treatment to protect the younger one emotionally.
My scenario would be like week 1- oldest one with mom, youngest with dad. weekend 1- both kids with mom. week 2- oldest one with dad, youngest one with mom. weekend 2- both kids with dad.
Thoughts? Ideas?
My ex and I are going to mediation next week to try to work out a schedule that will work for our girls (15 and 12). He currently has primary with me having ample visitation. This was agreed upon when I had to move for work approx 5 years ago. I have been back in town now for 1.5 years and have been working on getting back the 50/50 that we had before I was transferred.
My question is this: do judges allow separation of children? Our 15 yo is going thru a rough time and is in counseling and under a psychiatrists care. However, she causes a lot of stress for the 12 yo and it is manifesting is physical ailments. My thought is to separate them during the week and have them together on weekends. I don't want them separated for good or totally, but I think a break between them may be necessary while the older one goes thru treatment to protect the younger one emotionally.
My scenario would be like week 1- oldest one with mom, youngest with dad. weekend 1- both kids with mom. week 2- oldest one with dad, youngest one with mom. weekend 2- both kids with dad.
Thoughts? Ideas?