What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? PA
Ok, so I know that everyone here has their own stressful situations pertaining to their divorce, I’m just hoping to get some insight on mine. I’ve currently been separated (living apart) from my spouse for almost a year now. She’s basically taking a very passive aggressive approach to our situation and doing everything in her power to procrastinate things. I’ve filed for divorce (non contested), but she’s ignored the paperwork. She’s forced my hand to sell the house and split the assets which I did willingly and as quickly as I could. She refuses to look at our 2010 taxes that I’ve prepared and she won’t transfer her vehicle into her name which is still on my credit. She is making payments on it, but I’m running into issues with a house I’m trying to get because of my debt to income. She has agreed to at least sign a spousal waiver on the new house, but of course I haven’t seen anything yet (nor would I move ahead without it).
I’m just not sure what I can do or should do. I’ve been very polite and civil throughout this process mainly for the kids (she has them). She’s a good mom, so I don’t want to do anything that would upset that situation. I’ve gone through therapy and my Dr defiantly said she is using a passive aggressive approach to dealing with this situation. My spouse on the other hand hasn’t taken the advice to talk to a professional.
Maybe I’m just venting, and I know a lot of people out there have it worse than I do. Any suggestions or insight? Thanks for reading and your time!
Ok, so I know that everyone here has their own stressful situations pertaining to their divorce, I’m just hoping to get some insight on mine. I’ve currently been separated (living apart) from my spouse for almost a year now. She’s basically taking a very passive aggressive approach to our situation and doing everything in her power to procrastinate things. I’ve filed for divorce (non contested), but she’s ignored the paperwork. She’s forced my hand to sell the house and split the assets which I did willingly and as quickly as I could. She refuses to look at our 2010 taxes that I’ve prepared and she won’t transfer her vehicle into her name which is still on my credit. She is making payments on it, but I’m running into issues with a house I’m trying to get because of my debt to income. She has agreed to at least sign a spousal waiver on the new house, but of course I haven’t seen anything yet (nor would I move ahead without it).
I’m just not sure what I can do or should do. I’ve been very polite and civil throughout this process mainly for the kids (she has them). She’s a good mom, so I don’t want to do anything that would upset that situation. I’ve gone through therapy and my Dr defiantly said she is using a passive aggressive approach to dealing with this situation. My spouse on the other hand hasn’t taken the advice to talk to a professional.
Maybe I’m just venting, and I know a lot of people out there have it worse than I do. Any suggestions or insight? Thanks for reading and your time!