What is the name of your state? NEW YORK
I read a post from nicermom about SM's griping about the money their husband's send to the BM's as CS. Personally, I couldn't care less what the SM (my ex's wife) thinks about me lol. She is not my concern, nor is she me...all I am concerned about is that my children get what they need and are well taken care of. My ex became HER problem the minute she married him...and she knew what she was getting into before she married him lol. I am also a SM, and my husband paid CS too...I never once griped or complained about it because the child that this money was going to was innocent, and he deserved the CS. I never once thought if she was using the money on herself and not taking care of her child. Again, that is HER business and problem (if you will) not mine!
The only way I would step in and get in the SM's face is if she abused my kids while in her care. That never happened, so I had nothing to worry about. My ex's wife always griped at the money her husband sent me...he not only was ordered to pay CS, but also ordered to pay me alimony lol. I never let her complaints bother me...because there wasn't a thing she could do about it lol. So I let her waste her breath and time worrying about something she had no control over lol. It consumed her life...and her marriage with my ex, and I went on with mine very happily.
I read a post from nicermom about SM's griping about the money their husband's send to the BM's as CS. Personally, I couldn't care less what the SM (my ex's wife) thinks about me lol. She is not my concern, nor is she me...all I am concerned about is that my children get what they need and are well taken care of. My ex became HER problem the minute she married him...and she knew what she was getting into before she married him lol. I am also a SM, and my husband paid CS too...I never once griped or complained about it because the child that this money was going to was innocent, and he deserved the CS. I never once thought if she was using the money on herself and not taking care of her child. Again, that is HER business and problem (if you will) not mine!
The only way I would step in and get in the SM's face is if she abused my kids while in her care. That never happened, so I had nothing to worry about. My ex's wife always griped at the money her husband sent me...he not only was ordered to pay CS, but also ordered to pay me alimony lol. I never let her complaints bother me...because there wasn't a thing she could do about it lol. So I let her waste her breath and time worrying about something she had no control over lol. It consumed her life...and her marriage with my ex, and I went on with mine very happily.