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[Silverplum]

Because parsing is amusing:

For your information they have beeen seperated for over 4 yrs.

Still married.

he tried to get a divorce and she wont work with him.

He doesn't need her "help" or "work."

All i was doing was asking advise. I am not "cheating with a married man in a happy relationship.

Still married.
Still adultery.

You know nothing about me or my situation.

We know lots, all of which you voluntarily told us.

We remain unimpressed.

For your information she went to the casino and drained his bank account for 50,000 dollars. drug him down the road and has an realy bad drug habbit.

And he didn't bother to divorce her.

Even robbed military graves of there metals .

Because that's easy to do.

Why didn't you report her thefts to the military police?

So Don't you tell me to keep my legs shut. Only god can judge and the last time I checked god doesn't type **** on the computer.

Last time I checked, which was this morning, God spells His Name with a capital "G."

I am asking advise to help a man who tries and works very hard. I would never mess with a man in a marrige.

Contradiction. <<----- look it up.

SO take your rude comments and shuv them.

Ew.

They do not live together and have not for a long time there is no love in that relationship they hate eachother.

So why doesn't he divorce her?

Must be nice to sit on your high horse and judge people you know nothing about. You are defending a theif a cheater and a peice of crap drug addict who drains her elderly mother of all her money!!!!!!!! HOW IS THAT!!!!!

Pretty easy, thanks.

 

[colbey111]

?????

Alrighty then.

DO YOU PEOPLE EVEN READ ALL OF A POST OR JUST PIC K OUT THE **** THAT YOU CAN JUDJE PEOPLE ON!!! THEY HAVE NOT LIVED TOGETHER AND HE IS TRYING TO GET DIVORCED!!! I DID NOT POST HOW DO I STEAL THIS MAN OUT OF HIS LOVING MARRIGE!!!!!! THIS WAS A MISTAKE!!!! OBVIOUSLY NOBODY KNOWS ANY LEGAL ADVISE!!!! YOU PEOPLE MUST HAVE NO LIFE!!

 

[not2cleverRed]

For your information they have beeen seperated for over 4 yrs. he tried to get a divorce and she wont work with him. All i was doing was asking advise. I am not "cheating with a married man in a happy relationship. You know nothing about me or my situation. For your information she went to the casino and drained his bank account for 50,000 dollars. drug him down the road and has an realy bad drug habbit. Even robbed military graves of there metals . So Don't you tell me to keep my legs shut. Only god can judge and the last time I checked god doesn't type **** on the computer. I am asking advise to help a man who tries and works very hard. I would never mess with a man in a marrige. SO take your rude comments and shuv them. They do not live together and have not for a long time there is no love in that relationship they hate eachother. Must be nice to sit on your high horse and judge people you know nothing about. You are defending a theif a cheater and a peice of crap drug addict who drains her elderly mother of all her money!!!!!!!! HOW IS THAT!!!!!

You ARE in a relationship with a man who is LEGALLY married to another woman.

If he hasn't divorced, then he is still married. Until there is an actual divorce decree, in the eyes of the law, he is married. If he dropped dead tomorrow without a will, his WIFE - you know, that lady who is still legally his wife - would inherit, while you would be considered a legal non-entity.

It does not matter that he no longer lives with her. Also, love and happiness are not requirements for marriage in the eyes of LAW. (Otherwise Tolstoy's book Anna Karenina would have been rather brief.)

 

[Silverplum]

DO YOU PEOPLE EVEN READ ALL OF A POST OR JUST PIC K OUT THE **** THAT YOU CAN JUDJE PEOPLE ON!!! THEY HAVE NOT LIVED TOGETHER AND HE IS TRYING TO GET DIVORCED!!! I DID NOT POST HOW DO I STEAL THIS MAN OUT OF HIS LOVING MARRIGE!!!!!! THIS WAS A MISTAKE!!!! OBVIOUSLY NOBODY KNOWS ANY LEGAL ADVISE!!!! YOU PEOPLE MUST HAVE NO LIFE!!

Goodness, gracious.

 

[latigo]

Posts that begin with those words are always so...tacky. . . . .
The best advice has been given: Dictionary. Buy one, use it whenever you wrote, read it cover to cover while in the restroom.

I don’t recommend that! Loos and a lexicons aren’t a good fit.

I tried it at Barnes & Noble and they made me buy it! Next time I’ll take my own.

At least I didn’t pull a "George Costanza" and try to sell it.

 

[Silverplum]

I don’t recommend that! Loos and a lexicons aren’t a good fit.

I tried it at Barnes & Noble and they made me buy it! Next time I’ll take my own.

At least I didn’t pull a "George Costanza" and try to sell it.

Co-stanza!

 

[TheGeekess]

DO YOU PEOPLE EVEN READ ALL OF A POST OR JUST PIC K OUT THE **** THAT YOU CAN JUDJE PEOPLE ON!!! THEY HAVE NOT LIVED TOGETHER AND HE IS TRYING TO GET DIVORCED!!! I DID NOT POST HOW DO I STEAL THIS MANOUT OF HIS LOVING MARRIGE!!!!!! THIS WAS A MISTAKE!!!! OBVIOUSLY NOBODY KNOWS ANY LEGAL ADVISE!!!! YOU PEOPLE MUST HAVE NO LIFE!!

Alrighty then.

 

[Antigone*]

Please people, this poor victim of Circumstance.

Hurry someone call 911 we need Mr. Circumstance arrested immediately. He keeps victimizing this one!

 

[Proserpina]

YOU peolpe on here are amazing. People log on here and ask advise but all you people do is judge people. For your information the daughter is 30 yrs old. And has only been hurt by her drug addict mother who drains people for all they have including her elderly mother . this is supposed to be for "legal advise" and all you people do is hop up on your high horses and look down on people you know nothing about . All of you need not not judge only GOD can judge and he isn't on this freakin website.

Oh, okay then.

Please pick up your refund on the way out.


One teeny thing:

People who really want to get divorced, actually get divorced.

 

[Ohiogal]

Oh, okay then.

Please pick up your refund on the way out.


One teeny thing:

People who really want to get divorced, actually get divorced.

And those who have found an easy way to get milk, don't buy the cow.

 

[Bali Hai]

What do you think of a man who is willing to drag his child into court to testify against her other parent?

(To everyone else: I suppose there is the teeniest tiniest weeniest chance that OP and the boyfriend have not actually done the deed yet.

Is this legal?

 

[stealth2]

THis is turning into a wonderful week for fun posts!

OP - it doesn't matter if you stole him from his wife or not. HE is as much an adulterer as she is.

And I'm sorry, but the age of his daughter is moot. An parent - a REAL parent - would never put their child, regardless of age, up against the other parent. Really. No matter what.

My overall impression, however? You deserve one another.

 

[ecmst12]

And those who have found an easy way to get milk, don't buy the cow.

This is INCREDIBLY offensive. I am not a cow and I don't have milk, and a relationship is about more than sex. Believe it or not, there are plenty of men who do NOT base their decision to get married on whether their partner will have sex with them. And any man (or woman, for that matter) who would say "I don't need to get married, I'm already getting laid and I don't want anything else" is worthless. Did you miss the point of the women's rights movement being that we don't have to use our body parts to manipulate men into taking care of us anymore, because we can take care of ourselves? That women have more to offer a relationship than a hole and a heartbeat? It's real easy to sit on the other side of your keyboard and call someone a slut because she dares to have a relationship that you personally disapprove of, but it really doesn't make you look superior, it just makes you look petty and sexist.

And no, I don't think everyone who gets into a relationship with a separated-but-still-married person is horrible and deserves to be ridiculed, nor do I think they are all being taken advantage of by their boy/girlfriend. Some of them, maybe, but the blanket condemnation and insults are uncalled for.

I don't necessarily think this OP is the poster child for morality either, but every time I see this archaic bit of rhetoric thrown around, it pushes my buttons.

 

[Bali Hai]

THis is turning into a wonderful week for fun posts!

OP - it doesn't matter if you stole him from his wife or not. HE is as much an adulterer as she is.

And I'm sorry, but the age of his daughter is moot. An parent - a REAL parent - would never put their child, regardless of age, up against the other parent. Really. No matter what.

My overall impression, however? You deserve one another.

I was under the impression that if something the law provided for, such as pay alimony for life, then it is widely accepted.

 

[Bali Hai]

This is INCREDIBLY offensive. I am not a cow and I don't have milk, and a relationship is about more than sex. Believe it or not, there are plenty of men who do NOT base their decision to get married on whether their partner will have sex with them. And any man (or woman, for that matter) who would say "I don't need to get married, I'm already getting laid and I don't want anything else" is worthless. Did you miss the point of the women's rights movement being that we don't have to use our body parts to manipulate men into taking care of us anymore, because we can take care of ourselves? That women have more to offer a relationship than a hole and a heartbeat? It's real easy to sit on the other side of your keyboard and call someone a slut because she dares to have a relationship that you personally disapprove of, but it really doesn't make you look superior, it just makes you look petty and sexist.

And no, I don't think everyone who gets into a relationship with a separated-but-still-married person is horrible and deserves to be ridiculed, nor do I think they are all being taken advantage of by their boy/girlfriend. Some of them, maybe, but the blanket condemnation and insults are uncalled for.

I don't necessarily think this OP is the poster child for morality either, but every time I see this archaic bit of rhetoric thrown around, it pushes my buttons.

Then I suggest that every woman start doing just that instead of using the system to get a free ride.