Let's keep your threat together in one post , this one , Ok ?
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https://forum.freeadvice.com/showthread.php?t=233417
If I'm right you worded your question wrong .
Let's see if I'm correct .
You are receiving SSI disability Payments .
You want your girlfriend to be your Payee , but SSI said NO .
There could be a number of reasons SSI denied your request . Did they give a reason ?
Generally , SSI does not like to appoint persons that " Might Not " be around long as the payee . If the Girlfriend/boyfriend were to end their relationship and the BF/GF tells SSI they no longer want to be payee , it could take up to 6 months to re-establish an Agency as the payee , and in the meantime have to send payments directly to the recipient , who obviously can't handle financial matters .
The recipient could then end up with no shelter,food, clothing ,etc , as SSI is intended to provide .
SSI will error on the side of caution .
Who is your Payee now ?