What is the name of your state? Oregon
I have a question for you regarding my on going visitation battle.. I have posted on here of my case in the past.. I was served papers in Sept 2004 and this case is still going on and on. I have a court date set for May 25, 2005 if the case is not settled by then. Quick run down of case. Absent father of 9 years, $8,999.00 owed back child support, Total of three visits in 9 years. Just flat out an absent bio man.. Went to mediation and we couldnt agree on reasonable visitation. Reasonable meaning a get to know type plan. He is demanding so much without giving much if any thought to the child..I finally stuck my ground and denied all that he was asking and came up with what I thought would be a good starting point as far as absent father and child go.. In the mean time (while all this legal action is taking place) he still does not have contact with child. Still does not pay court ordered child support. What am I supose to think or do in this situation??
I was trying to see the positive outcome here but honestly I cant get past the inconsistant behavior on this mans part.. What can I do in court? What should I do in court.. Do I owe this man any slack? Im totally lost as to whats the right thing to do.. If I really had my way I would go for my husband adopting my son. That is who my son knows as Dad.
On the other hand I do not want to burn any bridges for my son.. Please give me your take and feedback on this Stealth
Thank you
Shari
I have a question for you regarding my on going visitation battle.. I have posted on here of my case in the past.. I was served papers in Sept 2004 and this case is still going on and on. I have a court date set for May 25, 2005 if the case is not settled by then. Quick run down of case. Absent father of 9 years, $8,999.00 owed back child support, Total of three visits in 9 years. Just flat out an absent bio man.. Went to mediation and we couldnt agree on reasonable visitation. Reasonable meaning a get to know type plan. He is demanding so much without giving much if any thought to the child..I finally stuck my ground and denied all that he was asking and came up with what I thought would be a good starting point as far as absent father and child go.. In the mean time (while all this legal action is taking place) he still does not have contact with child. Still does not pay court ordered child support. What am I supose to think or do in this situation??
I was trying to see the positive outcome here but honestly I cant get past the inconsistant behavior on this mans part.. What can I do in court? What should I do in court.. Do I owe this man any slack? Im totally lost as to whats the right thing to do.. If I really had my way I would go for my husband adopting my son. That is who my son knows as Dad.
On the other hand I do not want to burn any bridges for my son.. Please give me your take and feedback on this Stealth
Thank you
Shari