What is the name of your state? south carolina I have a 6yr old son that lives with his father. His father has custody we agreed to it during mediation. I have some questions. His father is married. I tried to call lastnight to ask what size shoe my son needed because i wanted to buy him some. Now i do pay child support and i don't buy his things that often. Anyways no one picked the phone up, i just left message. His wife called back and said what is it well i just asked to speak to my son's father. she said no so i left it at that. We don't get along i tried but she is difficult that's why i didn't ask her. But meanwhile she texted me and asked me not to call just text.I texted back and said i have the right to call.She said yes you do your son not my husband.Iasked her not to text me again she continued just saying things like call at your specified time you asked for in court.Which i don't have a problem with. But is she allowed not to let me speak to my childs father about my son.She always call me. In the past she called and said my son didn't want to come on his schedled weekend and don't waste my gas.We have a court date for this contempt.But what can i do if anything because she is acting like i have to deal with her when i don't and i have told her before i don't. She never lets me speak to my son's fatherabout anything.What is the name of your state?