kimberlywrites
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What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? TX
I have a posting history here of my kids' problems with their stepmother.
The latest incident was on the weekend, when she screamed at my 10-year-old son "I never want to see your face again" and then pushed him.
Apparently DS was asked to pick up his baby brother's toys, and he told his stepmom "But I just sat down." Yeah, that wouldn't fly with me either, and she sent him to his room. I would have as well.
It was 5 p.m. or so and she told my ex-husband that DS was to stay in his room until morning, no supper.
Ex-husband said that was unreasonable, talked to DS in his room, DS apologized. He went downstairs to do the same to stepmom, but the minute she saw him, the yelling and shove (and I do mean two-handed shove, ex-husband told me himself).
My son was upset but he seems fine; my daughter (12) isn't so fine about it, because this is just the latest incident in a long, long, long line of stepmom/stepchildren conflict.
She broke down at school yesterday, and told her teacher everything.
Teacher said she's required by law to report all of this to CPS. Now my daughter is terrifed her dad will find out she told.
What happens now? If CPS determines the children can't live there, does that mean ex-husband loses custody....? Or would I still need a lawyer since it would be a custody case....?
FYI, I've been trying to get the kids out of that situation for about three years. Ex won't change our current agreement, which is 50-50, no matter what he puts the kids through. I've consulted lawyers before. The police once too, when stepmom pushed me backwards into a wall when I was trying to get to my son, who was crying for me, and she wouldn't let him come to me because "these are my kids when they're here, not yours." She has been warned via legal documentation (letter from a lawyer) that her over-stepping ways could cost her husband custody....
I kept hoping it would just get better. I don't want the kids to not see their dad as much. It would break all their hearts. But now here we are.
When the ex-husband brought the kids back to me on Sunday, he pulled me outside to talk. He said he told his wife if she ever touched DS again, he would call the police. He also said he'd rather divorce her than not see his kids. Seems he's taking it a lot more seriously this time around.
What do I do...? Kids say they refuse to go back on Sunday (yes, I know that's too bad, so sad; they must).
I have a posting history here of my kids' problems with their stepmother.
The latest incident was on the weekend, when she screamed at my 10-year-old son "I never want to see your face again" and then pushed him.
Apparently DS was asked to pick up his baby brother's toys, and he told his stepmom "But I just sat down." Yeah, that wouldn't fly with me either, and she sent him to his room. I would have as well.
It was 5 p.m. or so and she told my ex-husband that DS was to stay in his room until morning, no supper.
Ex-husband said that was unreasonable, talked to DS in his room, DS apologized. He went downstairs to do the same to stepmom, but the minute she saw him, the yelling and shove (and I do mean two-handed shove, ex-husband told me himself).
My son was upset but he seems fine; my daughter (12) isn't so fine about it, because this is just the latest incident in a long, long, long line of stepmom/stepchildren conflict.
She broke down at school yesterday, and told her teacher everything.
Teacher said she's required by law to report all of this to CPS. Now my daughter is terrifed her dad will find out she told.
What happens now? If CPS determines the children can't live there, does that mean ex-husband loses custody....? Or would I still need a lawyer since it would be a custody case....?
FYI, I've been trying to get the kids out of that situation for about three years. Ex won't change our current agreement, which is 50-50, no matter what he puts the kids through. I've consulted lawyers before. The police once too, when stepmom pushed me backwards into a wall when I was trying to get to my son, who was crying for me, and she wouldn't let him come to me because "these are my kids when they're here, not yours." She has been warned via legal documentation (letter from a lawyer) that her over-stepping ways could cost her husband custody....
I kept hoping it would just get better. I don't want the kids to not see their dad as much. It would break all their hearts. But now here we are.
When the ex-husband brought the kids back to me on Sunday, he pulled me outside to talk. He said he told his wife if she ever touched DS again, he would call the police. He also said he'd rather divorce her than not see his kids. Seems he's taking it a lot more seriously this time around.
What do I do...? Kids say they refuse to go back on Sunday (yes, I know that's too bad, so sad; they must).