What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? WI
Basically I still carry the Health Ins whilst we wait for the final ruling and therefore I see all the EOBs etc. She has been seeing her OB doc 3 times a month for the past 3 months....I guess there could be another explanation but my suspicion is that she is pregnant. She has talked openly about her and her BF already "trying" to have kids (we have 2 kids together so i know that very regular OB visits in the first Trimester were common because of the high risk nature of both pregnancies...)
So that being said....emotion aside as i really could care less if she is pregnant....how is/could this effect me financially & legally...
Was this to happen I have a strong suspicion that after taking 3 months for maternity she probably would not go back to work...so then I suppose she will be looking to hit me up for more CS for our 2 kids.....
We have a meeting scheduled at the end of this month to discuss final terms for the MSA....would this dynamic effect anything i should/should not agree to in the MSA....I don't feel like I can just come out and as her as its not really my business...
In research on my own i've read that the divorce might need to go on hold till after the baby is born (my math puts that somewhere between Feb & march...) and that my name might end up on the Birth Certificate....not to mention the initial CS issues until I can prove the baby isn't mine (It isn't!!!)
The Temp Orders state that - "The respondent shall keep in force any hospital, medical, health and dental insurance currently in existence and shall make no changes to the policy. Any existing or future uninsured prescription drug charges or health/dental expenses for the care of the children shall be shared equally between the parties. Any uninsured prescription drug charges or health/dental expenses for a party shall be the sole responsibility of the party receiving such care." - I think that means i'm not going to get hit for paying for the birth etc....
Anything else I should be doing now or preparing for.....?
Thanks
Basically I still carry the Health Ins whilst we wait for the final ruling and therefore I see all the EOBs etc. She has been seeing her OB doc 3 times a month for the past 3 months....I guess there could be another explanation but my suspicion is that she is pregnant. She has talked openly about her and her BF already "trying" to have kids (we have 2 kids together so i know that very regular OB visits in the first Trimester were common because of the high risk nature of both pregnancies...)
So that being said....emotion aside as i really could care less if she is pregnant....how is/could this effect me financially & legally...
Was this to happen I have a strong suspicion that after taking 3 months for maternity she probably would not go back to work...so then I suppose she will be looking to hit me up for more CS for our 2 kids.....
We have a meeting scheduled at the end of this month to discuss final terms for the MSA....would this dynamic effect anything i should/should not agree to in the MSA....I don't feel like I can just come out and as her as its not really my business...
In research on my own i've read that the divorce might need to go on hold till after the baby is born (my math puts that somewhere between Feb & march...) and that my name might end up on the Birth Certificate....not to mention the initial CS issues until I can prove the baby isn't mine (It isn't!!!)
The Temp Orders state that - "The respondent shall keep in force any hospital, medical, health and dental insurance currently in existence and shall make no changes to the policy. Any existing or future uninsured prescription drug charges or health/dental expenses for the care of the children shall be shared equally between the parties. Any uninsured prescription drug charges or health/dental expenses for a party shall be the sole responsibility of the party receiving such care." - I think that means i'm not going to get hit for paying for the birth etc....
Anything else I should be doing now or preparing for.....?
Thanks
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