David Jonathan
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What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? Ramsey County, MN
Today my girlfriend received a temp. restraining order against her, from contacting her ex, or their three kids.
he does not have custody of the kids, they live with his parents based on a "family arrangement" His house was foreclosed on he too lives with his parents. He's also unemployed (thought I'd throw that out there, even tho it's not important)
In his allegations he's made up some lies and half truths however there are some truths embedded within his writing.
He DOES NOT have custody of the children.
The hearing is scheduled for 2/23/2009
There is already a no-contact order in place where he cannot contact her based on some domestic violence.
Child services is involved due to some neglect which happened shortly after the DV.
Is there anything she can do right now to get this TRO dropped today?
Is there anything she can do to end this "family arrangement" and have the kids placed back into foster care?
Since this family arrangement has been in place, the family has been abusing the privilege of having the children in their care. They have assumed that they have custody and have made all sorts of crazy rules about visitation, phone calls, etc. etc. These are all things that do not seem healthy for the children.
One note in the TRO that was filed was how He said "she told the kids she was going to take them" ... the actual conversation was that she was looking into getting a townhouse, so they would have their own bedroom, and if they would like that.
The kids always have an awesome time on visits, and are always sad when it's time to leave their mom. They have commented that they want to stay with mom because dad is mean.
That's about all the information I feel comfortable putting out on the internet, I do hope that's enough. If you need anything more detailed, please feel free to PM me any questions.
We are currently digging through our finances to see what we can do about finding legal help locally here, but I am hopeful for an opinion here, while I'm searching for funds. (no, I'm not begging for funding here, or free lawyers)
You guys have always been such a great help, thank you again!
--David Jonathan.
Today my girlfriend received a temp. restraining order against her, from contacting her ex, or their three kids.
he does not have custody of the kids, they live with his parents based on a "family arrangement" His house was foreclosed on he too lives with his parents. He's also unemployed (thought I'd throw that out there, even tho it's not important)
In his allegations he's made up some lies and half truths however there are some truths embedded within his writing.
He DOES NOT have custody of the children.
The hearing is scheduled for 2/23/2009
There is already a no-contact order in place where he cannot contact her based on some domestic violence.
Child services is involved due to some neglect which happened shortly after the DV.
Is there anything she can do right now to get this TRO dropped today?
Is there anything she can do to end this "family arrangement" and have the kids placed back into foster care?
Since this family arrangement has been in place, the family has been abusing the privilege of having the children in their care. They have assumed that they have custody and have made all sorts of crazy rules about visitation, phone calls, etc. etc. These are all things that do not seem healthy for the children.
One note in the TRO that was filed was how He said "she told the kids she was going to take them" ... the actual conversation was that she was looking into getting a townhouse, so they would have their own bedroom, and if they would like that.
The kids always have an awesome time on visits, and are always sad when it's time to leave their mom. They have commented that they want to stay with mom because dad is mean.
That's about all the information I feel comfortable putting out on the internet, I do hope that's enough. If you need anything more detailed, please feel free to PM me any questions.
We are currently digging through our finances to see what we can do about finding legal help locally here, but I am hopeful for an opinion here, while I'm searching for funds. (no, I'm not begging for funding here, or free lawyers)
You guys have always been such a great help, thank you again!
--David Jonathan.