Ohiogal
Queen Bee
You know nothing about me. I have volunteered my time to go sit in court with people so that they could get restraining orders against their abusive spouses. I have taken cases at flat rate far cheaper than other attorneys in the area that charge $200 and up an hour. I accept payments. I have contacted domestic violence and homeless shelters regarding VOLUNTEERING to give their clients legal advice. I spent this morning talking to a man helping him maneuver the legal system without a dime in compensation. During law school I worked for legal aid for two summers and spent my third year working at an appellate legal clinic -- all of which helped those who couldn't afford it. Yes I charge for my services, but I also tell people about the law and what is expected from them and what their obligations are. I don't sugar coat and I do not suck up to people so they hire me. I take juvenile and criminal appointments and I am currently in the process of taking training to become a VOLUNTEER GAL. Should I go on?mom6stepmom2 said:I quess I have no idea who you are either. Except maybe IAAL?
I have an attorney 'ragging' at me about how my husband could possibly spend money on reversing custody when their college funds aren't full. Reversing custody from a child abuser. And yes, all the legal stuff drained us financially. Is this standard response to potential clients? You are an attorney also. Correct? I thought the standard response from attornies is gleeful hand clapping as they take the check from the highest bidder. Doesn't really matter which parent they represent as long as they have cash and are the first ones through the door. My experience is they really don't care where the money comes from just so as they have it in hand before paperwork is started. My attorney asked me if I had credit cards, IRA's, trust funds, family members, the monthly grocery money, etc., to withdraw from when I last had to retain him.
The price of his legal fees does NOT excuse his financial obligations. If you don't like the legal FACT, that is your problem. If you want to whine and cry and expect sympathy, you better believe I wouldn't have taken your case. I would have told you the facts. I would have told you honestly. But you can't take the honesty so apparently you decide that you are going to badmouth ANYONE who tells you it like it is.
FACT: YOUR HUSBAND AGREED TO PAY FOR COLLEGE.
FACT: YOUR HUSBAND HAS A LEGAL OBLIGATION TO DO SO.
FACT: THE JUDGE WILL NOT ACCEPT EXCUSES FOR HIM NOT DOING SO.
FACT: IF HE HAD 15k to spent on an attorney then he had money to put in a college fund.
FACT: HE MADE A CHOICE TO SPEND IT ON THE ATTORNEY.
FACT: YOU HAVE MADE A CHOICE NOT TO WORK.
FACT: YOU AND HE MADE A CHOICE TO HAVE TWO KIDS TOGETHER.
FACT: HE WAS AWARE OF HIS LEGAL RESPONSIBILITIES FOR THE KIDS HE HAD WITH HIS EX.
FACT: HE MADE DECISIONS THAT DO NOT FREE HIM OF THIS OBLIGATIONS.
FACT: Deal with it!