InfantCustody
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What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)?
Hello,
Quick refresher: Baby is 4 months old and has been seeing Dad 5-6 hours, two times per week. Last week, he did one overnight. Aside from Dad texting 16 times in the 4 hours leading up to bedtime because he didn't know how to do things, it went well.
So, I go to the TPA hearing on Wednesday at 8:30 AM. The attorneys have been trying to work something out, but as usuall Dad is being a horses rear end! We were never married.....
He wants the following:
72 consecutive hours each week on his three days off. In addition, during any month when his days off DO NOT include a Saturday or Sunday, he wants one week-end per month, Friday at 5 - Sunday at 5, for his family to have "family parenting time" with Sullivan. Thus, giving him 14 of every 28 days.
Additionally, he will "allow" me one week-end per month where I have Sullivan Fri-Sunday if it is a month he has week-ends off, but only if he can "make up" that time on his work days and let his family take care of the baby OR have the baby on the road by 4:45 am and drop him off with me at 5:30 am - picking him back up at 5:00 pm.
My question: I have offered him what I feel is "generous" for parenting time (48 hours every week, with 72 hours on the weeks surrounding the one week-end I have) and he said no. Told me to shove it where the sun doesn't shine.
If I go into court and request he be granted 24 hours per week on one of his days off, in addition to every other week-end from Friday at 5 until Sunday at 5, regardless of his work schedule, do you think the judge will go for it? If not, the schedule is full of constant disruption and inconsistency and Dad is never, never, never happy. EVER!
I would say his family could either care for the baby on his week-ends, or he could drop him off with me if he desired.
Do courts always fold around a parents rotational schedule, or are non-custodial parents expected to manage working with children just as custodial parents?
Thank you, as always...
ETA:
Dad wants the papers to say "Both parties shall comply with all necessary steps to secure a passport for the child. In the event either party wants to travek with ******** out of the Country, they shall notify the other parent of their plans, intended dates of travel, specific destinations, flight information, and land line phone numbers. Neither parent will have the right to object to international travel."
Is that standard?
As you may remember, I had concerns about Dad taking him out of the Country based on some things he has said. Would you object to this?
Hello,
Quick refresher: Baby is 4 months old and has been seeing Dad 5-6 hours, two times per week. Last week, he did one overnight. Aside from Dad texting 16 times in the 4 hours leading up to bedtime because he didn't know how to do things, it went well.
So, I go to the TPA hearing on Wednesday at 8:30 AM. The attorneys have been trying to work something out, but as usuall Dad is being a horses rear end! We were never married.....
He wants the following:
72 consecutive hours each week on his three days off. In addition, during any month when his days off DO NOT include a Saturday or Sunday, he wants one week-end per month, Friday at 5 - Sunday at 5, for his family to have "family parenting time" with Sullivan. Thus, giving him 14 of every 28 days.
Additionally, he will "allow" me one week-end per month where I have Sullivan Fri-Sunday if it is a month he has week-ends off, but only if he can "make up" that time on his work days and let his family take care of the baby OR have the baby on the road by 4:45 am and drop him off with me at 5:30 am - picking him back up at 5:00 pm.
My question: I have offered him what I feel is "generous" for parenting time (48 hours every week, with 72 hours on the weeks surrounding the one week-end I have) and he said no. Told me to shove it where the sun doesn't shine.
If I go into court and request he be granted 24 hours per week on one of his days off, in addition to every other week-end from Friday at 5 until Sunday at 5, regardless of his work schedule, do you think the judge will go for it? If not, the schedule is full of constant disruption and inconsistency and Dad is never, never, never happy. EVER!
I would say his family could either care for the baby on his week-ends, or he could drop him off with me if he desired.
Do courts always fold around a parents rotational schedule, or are non-custodial parents expected to manage working with children just as custodial parents?
Thank you, as always...
ETA:
Dad wants the papers to say "Both parties shall comply with all necessary steps to secure a passport for the child. In the event either party wants to travek with ******** out of the Country, they shall notify the other parent of their plans, intended dates of travel, specific destinations, flight information, and land line phone numbers. Neither parent will have the right to object to international travel."
Is that standard?
As you may remember, I had concerns about Dad taking him out of the Country based on some things he has said. Would you object to this?
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