someone needs to make funeral arrangements for tq - his arguments just died.
here is a blurb regarding irrevocable trusts in california, where tq is supposedly most knowledgeable.
here is the first sentence - Whoever acts as the trustee of an irrevocable trust in California acts as a "fiduciary" and is responsible for performing the legal duties of a trustee as prescribed by law.
http://www.estateplanningsocal.com/trustees-duties.asp
Duties of a Trustee when Administering a California Irrevocable Trust
Whoever acts as the trustee of an irrevocable trust in California acts as a "fiduciary" and is responsible for performing the legal duties of a trustee as prescribed by law. If the trustee fails to do so properly and is challenged in court, he or she may be liable for any loss the trust incurs. Additionally, the trustee may be liable for punitive damages claimed by one or more of the trust's beneficiaries and have to pay all court costs involved in the settling the case, including the legal fees for both sides.
If challenged in court, the trustee will have to prove that his or her actions were proper and were done for the benefit of the trust and its beneficiary or beneficiaries.
By its nature, an irrevocable trust can only be changed or amended by a court order, one that is extremely difficult to receive. The trustee of an irrevocable trust can still invest the trust's assets, which can be sold or purchased, and make payments to the trust's beneficiary or beneficiaries in accordance with the trust's provisions, but little else.
Blood relationships do not exempt the trustee from the legal responsibilities, and it is not unusual for a child or children to sue a parent they feel has mismanaged a trust. Nor is it uncommon for siblings to sue each other. The children who are set to receive the proceeds of an irrevocable living trust retain legal rights, even if the trustee is the sole surviving parent. They may demand an accounting of the trust and its activities, they may inquire as to the nature of any investments, and question payments of principal made from the trust for the surviving spouse's health or support. They may even claim mismanagement of the trust and bring legal proceedings against the surviving spouse.