What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? NJ
I wanted to drop in and let you know how the "negotation in a civil manner is going"
Hubby sent email to ex advising that he will entertain her proposal and see what they can conclude now to be signed off on by judge and if matters are left on the table they would need to proceed through the courts to rectify them.
He also advised her that he is very hesitant to do this as the past indicates their inability to negotitate in a positive way, as he has been emailing her with no response and she will not answer her phone. That communication in reference to this move has been done through the children. This is what was received back.
The minutia of past incivilities is not relevant topic for this topic of discussion.
The future happiness and well being of S and M however is the matter at hand.
I'm not sure what your perspective is with regard to their moving with me to North Carolina but they have both expressed their intent to move after their school year has commenced.
I am moving and intend do so with both of our daughters with a mutual agreement in place to secure your presence in their lives.
As previously stated, I will not go to court repeatedly as I have been forced to in the past.
In fact S has that right at this time to chose in which household she choses to reside permanently and I am certain they both have the right to be heard by a judge or representative of the court.
I will not allow them to be separated so I will let you decide how to proceed.
I urge you on their behalf to listen to what they think and how they feel before you decide.
I will work diligently on the draft of the preliminary agreement but can make no promises for finality and agreement by both parties by your proposed April 30th deadline.
Hopefully you will allow enough time to proceed with this in the thoughtful and open minded manner in which you stated in your response. Such negotiation will require much thought and deliberation by all parties involved.
Filing with the court will need to be done as parties in agreement or simply not at all.
Best Regards,
A
Just wanted to let you all know he will be calling an attorney today to handle this. There goes the open credit we have...but oh well it will reduce the stress!
It is my impression as well as his that the bolded portion of the email indicates that if she does not agree to his proposal that she is leaving with out going to court.
I wanted to drop in and let you know how the "negotation in a civil manner is going"
Hubby sent email to ex advising that he will entertain her proposal and see what they can conclude now to be signed off on by judge and if matters are left on the table they would need to proceed through the courts to rectify them.
He also advised her that he is very hesitant to do this as the past indicates their inability to negotitate in a positive way, as he has been emailing her with no response and she will not answer her phone. That communication in reference to this move has been done through the children. This is what was received back.
The minutia of past incivilities is not relevant topic for this topic of discussion.
The future happiness and well being of S and M however is the matter at hand.
I'm not sure what your perspective is with regard to their moving with me to North Carolina but they have both expressed their intent to move after their school year has commenced.
I am moving and intend do so with both of our daughters with a mutual agreement in place to secure your presence in their lives.
As previously stated, I will not go to court repeatedly as I have been forced to in the past.
In fact S has that right at this time to chose in which household she choses to reside permanently and I am certain they both have the right to be heard by a judge or representative of the court.
I will not allow them to be separated so I will let you decide how to proceed.
I urge you on their behalf to listen to what they think and how they feel before you decide.
I will work diligently on the draft of the preliminary agreement but can make no promises for finality and agreement by both parties by your proposed April 30th deadline.
Hopefully you will allow enough time to proceed with this in the thoughtful and open minded manner in which you stated in your response. Such negotiation will require much thought and deliberation by all parties involved.
Filing with the court will need to be done as parties in agreement or simply not at all.
Best Regards,
A
Just wanted to let you all know he will be calling an attorney today to handle this. There goes the open credit we have...but oh well it will reduce the stress!
It is my impression as well as his that the bolded portion of the email indicates that if she does not agree to his proposal that she is leaving with out going to court.