kimberlywrites
Senior Member
What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? TX
Well I hired a lawyer this morning. We're starting by adding stuff to the decree, specific wording as to each parent's responsibilities during their week, including extracurricular activities, and a few other things.
When dad screws up because his wife won't "let" him do what he's supposed to do, then I can go for contempt of court and ask for a custody change. It's a little hard to do right now because the decree is so vague. Also, HE is listed as the one to designate the children's residence - which I agreed to so the kids wouldn't have to change schools. (We live within a mile of each other, but different school districts). Lawyer said a new law has passed in Texas that neither parent needs to be designated as such, so she's going to try and get that out of the decree as well. She said the fact he's got that right now makes it harder for me to request custody.
I don't want to take time away from him. I just want him to man up and do the things he is supposed to be doing.
As for the "simple assault," I will file with the DA this afternoon. This will help my case should we decide to go for custody after all. That will also depend on his reaction once he's served.
Well I hired a lawyer this morning. We're starting by adding stuff to the decree, specific wording as to each parent's responsibilities during their week, including extracurricular activities, and a few other things.
When dad screws up because his wife won't "let" him do what he's supposed to do, then I can go for contempt of court and ask for a custody change. It's a little hard to do right now because the decree is so vague. Also, HE is listed as the one to designate the children's residence - which I agreed to so the kids wouldn't have to change schools. (We live within a mile of each other, but different school districts). Lawyer said a new law has passed in Texas that neither parent needs to be designated as such, so she's going to try and get that out of the decree as well. She said the fact he's got that right now makes it harder for me to request custody.
I don't want to take time away from him. I just want him to man up and do the things he is supposed to be doing.
As for the "simple assault," I will file with the DA this afternoon. This will help my case should we decide to go for custody after all. That will also depend on his reaction once he's served.