notsurewhatto
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What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? WV
I have a four year old daughter and three year old son. Their father and I were never married and never lived together. We have no formal custody agreement. Neither child has ever spent the night at their father's house (his choice). I have the kids the majority of the time they are not in daycare. I would like their father to be more involved in their lives and have countless text messages where I've asked if he wants to see them and he says he's busy. He seems them maybe once a month if that. Sometimes the once a month visit is him stopping at my house to see them for 15 minutes on his way home from work. He's been laid off from his job for the last few months and is upset that I won't give him back his child support (which is withheld from his checks) I work full time so the kids are in daycare (and I have asked if he would watch them so I don't have to pay daycare when he's off work and he refuses) and I can't afford to give him back child support. So his answer is to file for 50/50 custody. Now in four years I have only spent two nights away from our kids. They are with me constantly when I'm not working. Now I think scheduled, regular visitation would be great for our children. I have tried to get him to see them once a week or every other weekend and he never has time. He will "watch" them for a few hours then call me to pick them up. He is court ordered to pay 60% of medical bills and to provide them with secondary insurance and he's never paid a single bill even though I've sent them and he refuses to give me his insurance information. I've never denied him from seeing our kids except on two occasions (once he gave me maybe an hour's notice and I already had plans with them and was on my way somewhere and another time he wanted to take our daughter to an amusement park six hours away and I said no. what are his chances of getting 50/50 custody?
I have a four year old daughter and three year old son. Their father and I were never married and never lived together. We have no formal custody agreement. Neither child has ever spent the night at their father's house (his choice). I have the kids the majority of the time they are not in daycare. I would like their father to be more involved in their lives and have countless text messages where I've asked if he wants to see them and he says he's busy. He seems them maybe once a month if that. Sometimes the once a month visit is him stopping at my house to see them for 15 minutes on his way home from work. He's been laid off from his job for the last few months and is upset that I won't give him back his child support (which is withheld from his checks) I work full time so the kids are in daycare (and I have asked if he would watch them so I don't have to pay daycare when he's off work and he refuses) and I can't afford to give him back child support. So his answer is to file for 50/50 custody. Now in four years I have only spent two nights away from our kids. They are with me constantly when I'm not working. Now I think scheduled, regular visitation would be great for our children. I have tried to get him to see them once a week or every other weekend and he never has time. He will "watch" them for a few hours then call me to pick them up. He is court ordered to pay 60% of medical bills and to provide them with secondary insurance and he's never paid a single bill even though I've sent them and he refuses to give me his insurance information. I've never denied him from seeing our kids except on two occasions (once he gave me maybe an hour's notice and I already had plans with them and was on my way somewhere and another time he wanted to take our daughter to an amusement park six hours away and I said no. what are his chances of getting 50/50 custody?