Slow down. Inhale and exhale deeply. Take a walk around the block. I’m not sure that we that we can help you further, because you would have been right in your assumption. However, I agree with former Chief Justice Warren Burger that “the entire legal profession . . . has become so mesmerized with the stimulation of the courtroom contest that we tend to forget that we ought to be healers of conflict . . . .” What do you want to know?