longsally111
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What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? South Carolina
Posting this for a neighbor as his computer has been packed up. I will try to make it brief. His wife of 3 years did not work, clean, cook, take care of the kids, grocery shop, nothing. He did it all, while she laid around the house claiming to be too ill to do aything but could get up for hair, nails, tanning etc.. She left the house 1 1/2 weeks ago taking her son from a previous relation ship that he did NOT adopt. They have a 2 year old together.
When she left, she left her key and told everyone she was returning to NC. He changed the locks to protect the marital assets with attorney approval as NOONE is living there currently. The next day, she wanted in the house and could not get in so she threw a rock through the front window and then left. Husband moved out with 2 year old until emergency court hearing for custody ( in case she changes her mind) and since all bills were in his name, he shut off all utilities and winterized the house and put tape over the huge hole in the window!! She now states she is moving back into the home and demands he turn everything back on. He told her to put it in her name and pay for it herself as he is not under court order to pay her anything or do anything at this time and she is the one who left.
I told him I did not know if that was legal. I am concerned as she did not send her son to school all last week because she was too lazy to get up and take him ( husband always did it) and she is leaving crazy messages for him like " you wont even let me go to college" It should be noted she has failed her GED twice!!!!
He is taking care of the little 2 year old daughter who he adored and she is currently in pain management for chronic pain and just got switched off Morphine to percocets and is also on Klonopin for "panic attacks" ( she is 25).
so, on to the question: 1. Can he turn everything in the house off is noone is living there, 2. Can she be held responsible for the damage to the home 3. is there any hope of him getting custody of the 8 yer old e did not adopt? ( natural father is in jail and had rights stripped already)
I would also like it noted that on their last day together, she called the police and put in a report stating he pulled a gun on her and threatened her and was then overheard by 3 people stating she was going to bruise herself and claim that he is beating her so she can "take him to the cleaners". He wont be in the home or go anywhere where she can get close to him and make false allgations again.
Posting this for a neighbor as his computer has been packed up. I will try to make it brief. His wife of 3 years did not work, clean, cook, take care of the kids, grocery shop, nothing. He did it all, while she laid around the house claiming to be too ill to do aything but could get up for hair, nails, tanning etc.. She left the house 1 1/2 weeks ago taking her son from a previous relation ship that he did NOT adopt. They have a 2 year old together.
When she left, she left her key and told everyone she was returning to NC. He changed the locks to protect the marital assets with attorney approval as NOONE is living there currently. The next day, she wanted in the house and could not get in so she threw a rock through the front window and then left. Husband moved out with 2 year old until emergency court hearing for custody ( in case she changes her mind) and since all bills were in his name, he shut off all utilities and winterized the house and put tape over the huge hole in the window!! She now states she is moving back into the home and demands he turn everything back on. He told her to put it in her name and pay for it herself as he is not under court order to pay her anything or do anything at this time and she is the one who left.
I told him I did not know if that was legal. I am concerned as she did not send her son to school all last week because she was too lazy to get up and take him ( husband always did it) and she is leaving crazy messages for him like " you wont even let me go to college" It should be noted she has failed her GED twice!!!!
He is taking care of the little 2 year old daughter who he adored and she is currently in pain management for chronic pain and just got switched off Morphine to percocets and is also on Klonopin for "panic attacks" ( she is 25).
so, on to the question: 1. Can he turn everything in the house off is noone is living there, 2. Can she be held responsible for the damage to the home 3. is there any hope of him getting custody of the 8 yer old e did not adopt? ( natural father is in jail and had rights stripped already)
I would also like it noted that on their last day together, she called the police and put in a report stating he pulled a gun on her and threatened her and was then overheard by 3 people stating she was going to bruise herself and claim that he is beating her so she can "take him to the cleaners". He wont be in the home or go anywhere where she can get close to him and make false allgations again.