What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? Il.
I'm sorry if I did wrong by starting a new thread, I debated which to do and chose to start a new on since the problems were totally different.
For those of you who do not know me, I am the mother with full legal and physical custody of 2 girls 9 & 6. The father would have normally had this weekend as his visitation starting tonight at 5:00 P.M.. In Feb. we went back to court to modify CS and visitation. At that time it was decided to change father's summer time to 14 consectutive days instead of his previous 2-7 day visits. He chose his 14 days to be July 20-Aug 2. At 8:00 tonight I received a phone call from the police department asking me why I was refusing to give the girls to their father for his visitation time. I explained to the officer the situation with the number of days, the fact that the father chose which days he wanted (he spefically chose to keep them for the Aug 1-2 weekend because it is our youngest daughter's birthday), and the fact that I have no less then 3 letters between us that confirm the days he wanted (letters sent CRR to him when I told him the dates he chose were okay with me). Also, I would have been open to letting him have the additional 2 days, but he never asked or even gave me any idea he wanted them. I have no idea why he called the police to file a report. According to the police officer, the father had already made the 2 1/2 hour trip back home when he realized I was not going to give him the kids and before he called the police department. I have to admit it sounds a little fishy to me, if he really wanted them why get all the way home before he called the police. Was he planning on driving another 2 1/2 hours to come back to get them?
My first reaction is to just ignore the situation, I have documentation to cover myself if he tries to file for contempt. The longer I think about it though the more I question whether or not I need to respond/cover my bottom. This is a man who is trying everything he can including filing intentional false reports with DCFS of abuse to gain custody of the girls. Should I send him a letter that politely reminds him of why the girls were not at the pick up point tonight? Should I send a copy of this letter to his attorney? The point that concerns me is that there is now a report at the police department where he claims I am with holding the children from him. Just wondering if I need to counter that somehow. THank you.
I'm sorry if I did wrong by starting a new thread, I debated which to do and chose to start a new on since the problems were totally different.
For those of you who do not know me, I am the mother with full legal and physical custody of 2 girls 9 & 6. The father would have normally had this weekend as his visitation starting tonight at 5:00 P.M.. In Feb. we went back to court to modify CS and visitation. At that time it was decided to change father's summer time to 14 consectutive days instead of his previous 2-7 day visits. He chose his 14 days to be July 20-Aug 2. At 8:00 tonight I received a phone call from the police department asking me why I was refusing to give the girls to their father for his visitation time. I explained to the officer the situation with the number of days, the fact that the father chose which days he wanted (he spefically chose to keep them for the Aug 1-2 weekend because it is our youngest daughter's birthday), and the fact that I have no less then 3 letters between us that confirm the days he wanted (letters sent CRR to him when I told him the dates he chose were okay with me). Also, I would have been open to letting him have the additional 2 days, but he never asked or even gave me any idea he wanted them. I have no idea why he called the police to file a report. According to the police officer, the father had already made the 2 1/2 hour trip back home when he realized I was not going to give him the kids and before he called the police department. I have to admit it sounds a little fishy to me, if he really wanted them why get all the way home before he called the police. Was he planning on driving another 2 1/2 hours to come back to get them?
My first reaction is to just ignore the situation, I have documentation to cover myself if he tries to file for contempt. The longer I think about it though the more I question whether or not I need to respond/cover my bottom. This is a man who is trying everything he can including filing intentional false reports with DCFS of abuse to gain custody of the girls. Should I send him a letter that politely reminds him of why the girls were not at the pick up point tonight? Should I send a copy of this letter to his attorney? The point that concerns me is that there is now a report at the police department where he claims I am with holding the children from him. Just wondering if I need to counter that somehow. THank you.