What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? CA
I would appreciate any suggestions you all might have.
I am looking to modify my visitation order.
I have an 8.5 year old daughter who lives in So. Cal. and I live in Dallas. Our order calls for 2 weekend and 3 if available. It also allows for 1 week for every month of summer break from school.
As my daughter is getting older and more involved in girl scouts, soccer, etc., I would like to modify our order that will allow our daughter to take part in these activities and not have to visit with me as it seems as though she may wind up resenting having to be with dad. In the alternative, I would rather accept minimal visitation through the school year in return for longer, school established long weekends and 8 of 12 weeks in the summer.
Is this too much to ask for?
My feeling is that as my daughter gets older, she's going to be more interested in her activities. I do not want her to resent the time she spends with me. Also, by having more summer time visitation, it will allow us to share more experiences together, such as taking a month in Italy or where ever where she can immerse herself in new cultures, etc.
What do the experts think is reasonable? I'm just trying to make things as reasonable as possible for everyone. My Ex wanted this type of arrangement originally, but the court found otherwise. When I brought it up to my ex, she now doesn't want to do it.
Thanks.
I would appreciate any suggestions you all might have.
I am looking to modify my visitation order.
I have an 8.5 year old daughter who lives in So. Cal. and I live in Dallas. Our order calls for 2 weekend and 3 if available. It also allows for 1 week for every month of summer break from school.
As my daughter is getting older and more involved in girl scouts, soccer, etc., I would like to modify our order that will allow our daughter to take part in these activities and not have to visit with me as it seems as though she may wind up resenting having to be with dad. In the alternative, I would rather accept minimal visitation through the school year in return for longer, school established long weekends and 8 of 12 weeks in the summer.
Is this too much to ask for?
My feeling is that as my daughter gets older, she's going to be more interested in her activities. I do not want her to resent the time she spends with me. Also, by having more summer time visitation, it will allow us to share more experiences together, such as taking a month in Italy or where ever where she can immerse herself in new cultures, etc.
What do the experts think is reasonable? I'm just trying to make things as reasonable as possible for everyone. My Ex wanted this type of arrangement originally, but the court found otherwise. When I brought it up to my ex, she now doesn't want to do it.
Thanks.
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