Kimmyf1965
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What is the name of your state? TN
I'm sorry that I keep asking questions but I have another question. Today is Thursday and as usual my X's wife is calling wanting to cancel their visitation. When his wife called today she said that they can't pick him up today and wanted to know if they can take him at 3:00 tomorrow instead of 6:00. My X is suppose to take him on Wednesdays and Thursdays from 2:00 to 7:00. As stated in a previous thread he never takes him on Wednesdays and occationally takes him Thursdays. When I went to court several weeks ago my X stated that he had no knowledge of a conversation that took place between me and his new wife. This conversation was very important to my case and I know that he was sitting next to her while we talked because I asked to speak to him about something else regarding visitation and he got on the phone with me. Here's what I want to say to her when I call her back:
1st of all he needs to be the one that calls me when you are going to talk to me in person. I'm not going to deal with anymore of this she must have talked to my wife because I have no knowledge of the conversation. 2nd no you can't take him tomorrow at 3:00 instead of 6:00 because I work and I want to spend sometime with him before leaves. I don't care if you pick him up today or not but he needs to let me know what he is doing.
Can I say this to his wife? Do I have to deal with her on issues and changes involving my son?
Also, my court papers from August 24th, 2004 states "Both parents are strickly advised to adhere to the visitation schedule set forth in the parenting plan on June ?? of 2001. There were absolutely no modifications to the parenting plan that includes the Wednesday deal. Is he in violation of the court order if he doens't pick him up on Wednesdays and Thursdays? Or is the key word here "advised"?
Thanks,
Kim
I'm sorry that I keep asking questions but I have another question. Today is Thursday and as usual my X's wife is calling wanting to cancel their visitation. When his wife called today she said that they can't pick him up today and wanted to know if they can take him at 3:00 tomorrow instead of 6:00. My X is suppose to take him on Wednesdays and Thursdays from 2:00 to 7:00. As stated in a previous thread he never takes him on Wednesdays and occationally takes him Thursdays. When I went to court several weeks ago my X stated that he had no knowledge of a conversation that took place between me and his new wife. This conversation was very important to my case and I know that he was sitting next to her while we talked because I asked to speak to him about something else regarding visitation and he got on the phone with me. Here's what I want to say to her when I call her back:
1st of all he needs to be the one that calls me when you are going to talk to me in person. I'm not going to deal with anymore of this she must have talked to my wife because I have no knowledge of the conversation. 2nd no you can't take him tomorrow at 3:00 instead of 6:00 because I work and I want to spend sometime with him before leaves. I don't care if you pick him up today or not but he needs to let me know what he is doing.
Can I say this to his wife? Do I have to deal with her on issues and changes involving my son?
Also, my court papers from August 24th, 2004 states "Both parents are strickly advised to adhere to the visitation schedule set forth in the parenting plan on June ?? of 2001. There were absolutely no modifications to the parenting plan that includes the Wednesday deal. Is he in violation of the court order if he doens't pick him up on Wednesdays and Thursdays? Or is the key word here "advised"?
Thanks,
Kim