batorideikou
Junior Member
What is the name of your state? PA
Hi there,
I'm writing on behalf of my mother, who has "dated" and lived with this retarded deadbeat for about 7 years now. She invited this "man" in to live with her after 6 months of knowing him, with promises of gold and diamonds, and it ended up more like deep pockets and short arms when it comes to anything. She'll call me crying about how he refuses to pay bills, she takes care of the mortgage, most of the utilities, all she asks is that he pay taxes (on the house I'm assuming) and he can't even do that. He's also run up a large Dick's credit card bill and she lent him money for a car when they first met that he's never paid back, eats her food and takes her out once a week for a $5-$10 meal and thinks that that justifies it, etc. The twist is this: the man purportedly makes almost 70k/yr doing a "skilled trade" never lets her see his paychecks, and dumps most of his money into his 401k, so she never sees a dime. She's screamed bloody murder at him nearly every weekend since he's been around to leave, and he never does. He says that if he leaves she'll lose her house, and if someone is that selfish to begin with, obviously they don't care if someone else keeps their house. I personally think he's just dumping money into his 401k and wanted to find (I love my mother but she's very gullible at times) some lady to take him in so he wouldn't have to spend any money so he can retire and cash in that 401k and then leave her in the dust. He hasn't given her anything up to this point, is verbally abusive at times, has a large collection of guns which comes up under quite a few arguements as a "solution" if you know what I mean, et cetera. This idiot has been her for 7 full years now and his "rent" amounts to maybe $300/month. You could not even rent a studio apartment around here for that, let alone 2 garages to store painting equipment, a boat, guns, etc. Sorry for being so long-winded, I'm just very passionate about giving this loser his comeuppance. What can be done to get this joke out of the house after being in it for 7 years? Oh, and no they're not "married" or whatever in any way shape or form, his name is NOT on the mortgage and there is no contract for rent or anything. Any help would be much appreciated.
Hi there,
I'm writing on behalf of my mother, who has "dated" and lived with this retarded deadbeat for about 7 years now. She invited this "man" in to live with her after 6 months of knowing him, with promises of gold and diamonds, and it ended up more like deep pockets and short arms when it comes to anything. She'll call me crying about how he refuses to pay bills, she takes care of the mortgage, most of the utilities, all she asks is that he pay taxes (on the house I'm assuming) and he can't even do that. He's also run up a large Dick's credit card bill and she lent him money for a car when they first met that he's never paid back, eats her food and takes her out once a week for a $5-$10 meal and thinks that that justifies it, etc. The twist is this: the man purportedly makes almost 70k/yr doing a "skilled trade" never lets her see his paychecks, and dumps most of his money into his 401k, so she never sees a dime. She's screamed bloody murder at him nearly every weekend since he's been around to leave, and he never does. He says that if he leaves she'll lose her house, and if someone is that selfish to begin with, obviously they don't care if someone else keeps their house. I personally think he's just dumping money into his 401k and wanted to find (I love my mother but she's very gullible at times) some lady to take him in so he wouldn't have to spend any money so he can retire and cash in that 401k and then leave her in the dust. He hasn't given her anything up to this point, is verbally abusive at times, has a large collection of guns which comes up under quite a few arguements as a "solution" if you know what I mean, et cetera. This idiot has been her for 7 full years now and his "rent" amounts to maybe $300/month. You could not even rent a studio apartment around here for that, let alone 2 garages to store painting equipment, a boat, guns, etc. Sorry for being so long-winded, I'm just very passionate about giving this loser his comeuppance. What can be done to get this joke out of the house after being in it for 7 years? Oh, and no they're not "married" or whatever in any way shape or form, his name is NOT on the mortgage and there is no contract for rent or anything. Any help would be much appreciated.