Not actually trying to be mean.....

[ljrdg]

What is the name of your state? Indiana

I am noticing that ALOT of these threads are written by someones fiance or new wife/husband who have nothing to do with any of these cases. Some of them seem so worried about how much is paid on child support, etc.and wondering what can be done. I am sorry but these people have no business in these cases. Its between the parents, not the girlfriends/boyfriends/fiances/stepparents. Its really getting irritating and if the actual PARENT has legal questions then they should be the ones to come on here and ask for advice because they are the ones who know the whole situation. One poster had no idea what arreages meant but yet wants people to help her answer questions regarding support that is none of her business. Sorry for the rant just hope people read this and know if they are not the parent then get the actual parent to post here.

It will make it much easier for the wise ones on here that know what they are talking about (you know who you are) to answer questions when they are dealing with the actual parent that knows whats going on.

 

[Silverplum]

So it's gotten very irritating for you, huh? Since February.

What is the name of your state? Indiana

I am noticing that ALOT of these threads are written by someones fiance or new wife/husband who have nothing to do with any of these cases. Some of them seem so worried about how much is paid on child support, etc.and wondering what can be done. I am sorry but these people have no business in these cases. Its between the parents, not the girlfriends/boyfriends/fiances/stepparents. Its really getting irritating and if the actual PARENT has legal questions then they should be the ones to come on here and ask for advice because they are the ones who know the whole situation. One poster had no idea what arreages meant but yet wants people to help her answer questions regarding support that is none of her business. Sorry for the rant just hope people read this and know if they are not the parent then get the actual parent to post here.

 

[ljrdg]

So it's gotten very irritating for you, huh? Since February.

Yep....so whats your point? I dont care if i have been here a month or a year, the actual parents should be asking the questions, not someone who shouldnt be involved. Why are you always so hateful to everyone who posts on here? I dont even have to look at the name on a posting and already know its yours by the hatefulness. At least some of the others try to answer respectfully, you should try it sometime.

 

[angelmama]

Hmm...I'm a stepparent, and I'm quite sorry but I will have to disagree. My money, my house, my husband, my business. My husband (the custodial parent of my Skids) does not pay nor does he receive child support, but quit frankly if he was the payer or the payee of a support order it absolutely would be my business to know how much he was paying or receiving. See there's this funny thing about married people, and it goes like this. Husbands and a wives usually have jobs, and they put their money into their household budget. They then take that budget and pay household expenses, child support possibly being one of them. Both partners should be aware of what expenses need to be paid so that they can be budgeted appropriately.

Sometimes our significant others may not have time to peruse the net, or perhaps they aren't internet savvy. SoOo...significant others to parents might try to find resources to help their partners. Sorry if it 'offends you' that people are interested in finding out information to help their spouses (which in turn could possibly help their spouses children)...perhaps you should just ignore those posts if its so upsetting.

 

[calibecca]

As one of those "non parents" posting questions, isn't this a forum to get information? Custody/Child support issues are very much apart of the spouses life as well. I just want to get informed about the situation, since it is my family. I love my fiance and soon to be step daughter very much and am just trying to gather info.

 

[Silverplum]

Well, aren't you just a lovely being?

You're NEW here, bozo. You aren't in the POSITION to complain, or to give any sort of instructions to anyone. You come here, you ask your qs, you leave. Simple as that.

Yep....so whats your point? I dont care if i have been here a month or a year, the actual parents should be asking the questions, not someone who shouldnt be involved. Why are you always so hateful to everyone who posts on here? I dont even have to look at the name on a posting and already know its yours by the hatefulness. At least some of the others try to answer respectfully, you should try it sometime.

 

[fairisfair]

Well, aren't you just a lovely being?

You're NEW here, bozo. You aren't in the POSITION to complain, or to give any sort of instructions to anyone. You come here, you ask your qs, you leave. Simple as that.

uh uh, he didn't leave those other ones are the good ones LOL

 

[Gracie3787]

What is the name of your state? Indiana

I am noticing that ALOT of these threads are written by someones fiance or new wife/husband who have nothing to do with any of these cases. Some of them seem so worried about how much is paid on child support, etc.and wondering what can be done. I am sorry but these people have no business in these cases. Its between the parents, not the girlfriends/boyfriends/fiances/stepparents. Its really getting irritating and if the actual PARENT has legal questions then they should be the ones to come on here and ask for advice because they are the ones who know the whole situation. One poster had no idea what arreages meant but yet wants people to help her answer questions regarding support that is none of her business. Sorry for the rant just hope people read this and know if they are not the parent then get the actual parent to post here.

It will make it much easier for the wise ones on here that know what they are talking about (you know who you are) to answer questions when they are dealing with the actual parent that knows whats going on.

Maybe one of the reasons is because the parent is so busy working 2 jobs or working so much overtime in order to pay CS that the parent doesn't have the time or energy to post.

Maybe one of the reasons is that the fiance or spouse is more proficient in using the computer.

It IS a spouse's or fiancee's business- any CS paid directly affects the step-parent and whole household.

If you are soo irritated by people asking questions, you should simply stop reading.

 

[frylover]

Some people. like my husband, detest writing....very smart man but just isn't that great at phrasing things.

 

[MMG1173]

Some people. like my husband, detest writing....very smart man but just isn't that great at phrasing things.

I second that I love my fiance dearly, but he's just not all that savvy about certain things. He's also an over-the-road truck driver, while I sit in an office at a computer...with endless resources at my fingertips..why not find out what information I can? It may be 'his' issue...but it's 'our' situation. Ya know, that whole love thing...it gets in the way sometimes.

 

[moburkes]

Maybe, jdrd, or whatever his/her name is, will get the picture and go away. Sorry, my name isn't silver, and I've been confused with fair, but I can be a hateful witch too!

 

[fairisfair]

Maybe, jdrd, or whatever his/her name is, will get the picture and go away. Sorry, my name isn't silver, and I've been confused with fair, but I can be a hateful witch too!

Hey, now wait just a minute. . . . . . . .