Mother dragging son to psychologist

[Ohiogal]

Oh and in case you decide the adultery does not matter because it ended last week or a few days ago:
The 2006 Florida Statutes

The 2006 Florida Statutes

Title XLVI
CRIMES Chapter 798
ADULTERY; COHABITATION View Entire Chapter

798.02 Lewd and lascivious behavior.--If any man and woman, not being married to each other, lewdly and lasciviously associate and cohabit together, or if any man or woman, married or unmarried, engages in open and gross lewdness and lascivious behavior, they shall be guilty of a misdemeanor of the second degree, punishable as provided in s. 775.082 or s. 775.083.

History.--s. 6, ch. 1637, 1868; RS 2596; GS 3519; RGS 5407; CGL 7550; s. 773, ch. 71-136.


See now you fall under this definition. You are not married and you cohabit together in front of minors.

Oh and the SOL is 1 year:
d) A prosecution for a misdemeanor of the second degree or a noncriminal violation must be commenced within 1 year after it is committed.

 

[Ohiogal]

As in all legal matters, she would have to prove that we were committing adultery in the past if she wanted to use it against my boyfriend. Right?!

You are too predictable. Because if you don't like adultery we got the other part. Which is easy to prove.

 

[BlissfulMommy]

Except you have been admitting your crime all over the internet -- and it is a crime in Florida -- and the SOL has not passed.Allowing a 10 year old to babysit an 8 year old is NOT a crime. Adultery in Florida is.

I'm already waiting for the cops to show up at our house and to arrest my boyfriend and I since we are criminals because of adultery and co-habitation. . Besides everything else we are now criminals as well. This is really obscene and freaky

Extremely conservative bible-beaters must have made those ridiculous laws - for God's sake, we are living in the 21st century! Why not re-inventing the "Scarlet Letter"? There is a movie with Demi Moore about the Scarlet Letter, it plays sometime in the 17th or 18th century.

 

[Ohiogal]

Oh and the definition of lewd:
Obscene or indecent; tending to moral impurity or wantonness.

So son goes to counseling. States that he is upset seeing his dad kiss and hug and display affection with you or go into the bedroom with you. Guess what? Lewd behavior. Guess what? You have committed a crime. Guess what? Mom gotcha.

 

[Ohiogal]

I'm already waiting for the cops to show up at our house and to arrest my boyfriend and I since we are criminals because of adultery . Besides everything else we are now criminals as well. This is really obscene and freaky

You really don't get it. This is a joke to you. You are the saint that does no wrong. And you do not even understand how much your attitude can hurt your boyfriend. Do you? Keep being clueless. Keep trying to find something on mom. And watch what happens when this does go to court. You will find that your behavior has a very negative impact.

 

[jbowman]

I'm already waiting for the cops to show up at our house and to arrest my boyfriend and I since we are criminals because of adultery and co-habitation. . Besides everything else we are now criminals as well. This is really obscene and freaky

Extremely conservative bible-beaters must have made those ridiculous laws - for God's sake, we are living in the 21st century! Why not re-inventing the "Scarlet Letter"? There is a movie with Demi Moore about the Scarlet Letter, it plays sometime in the 17th or 18th century.

Ok so why is it that you are so quick to talk about mom sleeping with different men (not illegal) and you feel it is so horrible and she is the worst mom in history but when you are faced with something you are doing or have done that can negatively impact this child's life, you laugh it off.

Do you see what OG is trying to show you? The judgement you are passing on mom can come right back to bite you. You are no saint. And you are going to damage this child.

 

[BlissfulMommy]

Oh and the definition of lewd:
Obscene or indecent; tending to moral impurity or wantonness.

So son goes to counseling. States that he is upset seeing his dad kiss and hug and display affection with you or go into the bedroom with you. Guess what? Lewd behavior. Guess what? You have committed a crime. Guess what? Mom gotcha.

His mother does that ALL THE TIME with DIFFERENT GUYS. How about my boyfriend, his 16 year old daughter and his son sitting in Mom's dining room building a car model while she is sitting on the couch in the adjacent living room with her boyfriend, him fondling her under a blanket? There's 3 witnesses for that incident. Inappropriate? Definitely!Hmmmmm, double standards? Maybe the son will tell the psychologist about that too. Result = Mom got NOTHING.

Maybe what we did in the past was wrong while we were still married, it obviously is Florida law. There is no difference in what his Mom and us are doing though. I'm not saying we are saints, definitely not.

 

[Ohiogal]

His mother does that ALL THE TIME with DIFFERENT GUYS. How about my boyfriend, his 16 year old daughter and his son sitting in Mom's dining room building a car model while she is sitting on the couch in the adjacent living room with her boyfriend, him fondling her under a blanket? There's 3 witnesses for that incident. Inappropriate? Definitely!Hmmmmm, double standards? Maybe the son will tell the psychologist about that too. Result = Mom got NOTHING.

Maybe what we did in the past was wrong while we were still married, it obviously is Florida law. There is no difference in what his Mom and us are doing though. I'm not saying we are saints, definitely not.

And mom's living room is in Ohio. Dad's is in Florida. In Ohio adultery is not a crime. In Florida it is. There are different offenses. Ohio has one called voyeurism. How do you know this happened? I didn't see you mention you were there. BUt dad was and allowed it to go on in the presence of his child and did nothing. Yep. Great parenting dad. Oh and cohabitation in Ohio is not against the law. But in Florida ... it is.

 

[BlissfulMommy]

And mom's living room is in Ohio. Dad's is in Florida. In Ohio adultery is not a crime. In Florida it is. There are different offenses. Ohio has one called voyeurism. How do you know this happened? I didn't see you mention you were there. BUt dad was and allowed it to go on in the presence of his child and did nothing. Yep. Great parenting dad. Oh and cohabitation in Ohio is not against the law. But in Florida ... it is.

How do you assume that Dad didn't do anything? Once again - you are assuming way too fast and conclude way too fast that Mom can't do any wrong and that Dad is just - always the bad one. He took both his kids and left the home because of what was going on and to shield both kids from this inappropriate behavior to get something to eat - because he is a good and responsible Dad! I wasn't there, no, but I heard it from his 16 year old daughter who was extremely disgusted by what happened in the livingroom.

 

[jbowman]

Guess what Blissful? No one on this site thinks DAD is a bad guy!! YOU are the one that is a disgrace to mothers/girlfriends/stepmothers. No one has mentioned dad.

 

[BlissfulMommy]

Guess what Blissful? No one on this site thinks DAD is a bad guy!! YOU are the one that is a disgrace to mothers/girlfriends/stepmothers. No one has mentioned dad.

And what have I done so wrong? OMG, I feel like I'm in the Twilight Zone You can call me names, diss me for all kinds of stupid reasons - but you know what....you can't get to me in any way, shape or form. I don't care a bit about what you think about me. I KNOW that I'm a great mother and soon-to-be-stepmom. I didn't ask for being judged, I asked for LEGAL advice and and sometimes maybe just for a little support and a lot of you guys and gals assaulted me PERSONALLY. I was hoping for some HUMANITY and understanding here. I'm leaving with my dignity intact and I want to thank those of you - who actually showed some understanding - for your advice. I truly believe in my signature and I treat others the way I want to be treated and maybe some of you should think about that for a minute too. That's true karma.

:::leaving this board with a smile on my face and I'm not looking back:::

 

[Ohiogal]

How do you assume that Dad didn't do anything? Once again - you are assuming way too fast and conclude way too fast that Mom can't do any wrong and that Dad is just - always the bad one. He took both his kids and left the home because of what was going on and to shield both kids from this inappropriate behavior to get something to eat - because he is a good and responsible Dad! I wasn't there, no, but I heard it from his 16 year old daughter who was extremely disgusted by what happened in the livingroom.

No I am not assuming. I was going by what you said. You said dad and his two kids were in the other room doing something. You never said he left the house. And if he was not in the house he has no idea what was going on.

 

[fairisfair]

oh for god's sake is this STILL going on. I would think at least SOME of you had better sense!!!

Bliss, you asked for it with your constant criticism of mom and your never ending search to find anything to "use" against her.

You may well have good intentions, but your are certainly going about it all wrong.

 

[Ohiogal]

And what have I done so wrong? OMG, I feel like I'm in the Twilight Zone You can call me names, diss me for all kinds of stupid reasons - but you know what....you can't get to me in any way, shape or form. I don't care a bit about what you think about me. I KNOW that I'm a great mother and soon-to-be-stepmom. I didn't ask for being judged, I asked for LEGAL advice and and sometimes maybe just for a little support and a lot of you guys and gals assaulted me PERSONALLY. I was hoping for some HUMANITY and understanding here. I'm leaving with my dignity intact and I want to thank those of you - who actually showed some understanding - for your advice. I truly believe in my signature and I treat others the way I want to be treated and maybe some of you should think about that for a minute too. That's true karma.

:::leaving this board with a smile on my face and I'm not looking back:::

You got legal advice. You wanted understanding? The problem is we do understand. YOU want to demonize mom. YOU want to do whatever you can to get your boyfriend (dad) custody regardless of what is legally relevant. YOU want to criticize mom for EVERY decision she makes including taking the child to a psychologist and you hope that everything she does YOU can use against her.
Guess what? You can't. YOU are not in this. YOU are not a party. YOU are intruding, interfering and overly involved in this matter. YOU are not even stepmom. And you refuse to see how your behavior and actions can seriously harm dad's chances of custody. And when that is pointed out to you you cry and weep and moan and complain about it. YOu don't like hearing the problems you are facing.

 

[Ohiogal]

oh for god's sake is this STILL going on. I would think at least SOME of you had better sense!!!

Bliss, you asked for it with your constant criticism of mom and your never ending search to find anything to "use" against her.

You may well have good intentions, but your are certainly going about it all wrong.

Oh come on Fair. Bliss was someone that we could have liked and we want to sway her from the error of her ways. Apparently we should give up on her though cause she is a lost cause?

Dang. that is sad. She said she was leaving but as I write this she is still here. Maybe hoping we beg her to stay.