GAMOMtired
Junior Member
I still don't understand how someone can have 2 children with you and not have to pay child support. Have you been raising them on your own since their birth? If so, now why all of a sudden do you have to do all the work so he can see his kids whom he has clearly ignored up until this point? According to these posts you're just supposed to jump up and down, OH Boy, he wants to see his kids! Well I don't think so.
On one of the posts someone said visitation is a privilege not an obligation. Why is that? A parent is a parent, and getting a divorce does not mean that the CP nor NCP has been relieved of that obligation. That child is your flesh and blood. God gave you that child to raise and take care of for life, not when you choose it's convenient. There is no such thing as part time parenting, both parents should be actively involved in their childs lives, both emotionally and financially.
When you divorce someone or don't marry someone but you have a child with that person your marital status does not change your status with your child. That is your child regardless, and you should be responsible to them as a parent (married or unmarried.)
On one of the posts someone said visitation is a privilege not an obligation. Why is that? A parent is a parent, and getting a divorce does not mean that the CP nor NCP has been relieved of that obligation. That child is your flesh and blood. God gave you that child to raise and take care of for life, not when you choose it's convenient. There is no such thing as part time parenting, both parents should be actively involved in their childs lives, both emotionally and financially.
When you divorce someone or don't marry someone but you have a child with that person your marital status does not change your status with your child. That is your child regardless, and you should be responsible to them as a parent (married or unmarried.)