Mrs. K: If it were all about money, I would be doing the child support order first, don't you think? And for almost a year, i have continued to meet him 1/2 way and pay ALL expenses, so he could see the kids. I am not money hungry, that I can assure you. I am disappointed that he doesn't want to see the kids.. and this has been an ongoing battle for a few years where I have to hear my 6 yr old say "Mommy, why did Daddy pick them over us?". And when he DOESN'T show, they rejoice! They hate going with them - that's sad.
Dad isn't working; so he can leave whenever to get the kids. The custody order will state that he needs to notify me the Wednesday before the weekend as to his intent.
When Dad DOES work, he works from home. As a matter of fact, his girlfriend does the same type of work - so she went and got ANOTHER job, he is actually doing the work for THAT job and she is getting the money, isn't that nice
(Ex's mother told me on accident)